So my mate has been talking to this girl for 4 years there good friends, she tells him all her boy trouble and she is looking for a nice guy. So he told her he has the perfect guy for her and then told me about her. So i added her on facebook just before new year, she spoke to me first and we hit it off straight away having a good chat, later that night my mate got a text from her saying i seem or am very lovely( can't remember exactly), so we spoke for the next couple of days up until about last wednesday. On tuesday she had fallen asleep but then text me the following after noon, the same happened on the wednesday but i didn't recieve a text on thursday, so i gave her a little text on thursday night asking how she was but she had some uni work to do i said give me a text later then and i'll let you get on with it and she said thanks.She did have uni work as she was ment to do it on the wednesday but was texting me. After that i never heard from her. so i contacted my mate on saturday thinking maybe she isn't into me , he was like want me to find out i was like if you can but don't make it obvious, she replied saying that she thinks am lovely and we are silimar but she is confused as she is seeing this guy and doesn't know weather to get serious, so my mate was like yea she likes you but doesn't know what she will do. She got a new number so i pm'd her it and we spoke for a bit on sunday night but eventually she seen the comment on fb and didn't reply and we havn't spoken since. What do you guys think? You think she likes me? Am not sure if maybe she is trying not to lead me on incase she does get serious with this guy or maybe she just isn't into me? But from what she said to my friend kind of made me think she is but not 100% sure.
I would bow out since she is seeing another guy. Just because she's unsure how she feels about him doesn't change the fact that she is seeing him. Bow out, stay friends, and if it doesn't work out with him and her, then go from there.
sounds like she doesn't want to completely turn you down so she can have you as a backup in case the other guy doesn't work out. but it's really hard to say on so little information.
unless you wanna woo her over current guy, whoever that is. You should chill for a bit. either way I wouldn't worry hard about it. Keep her in your life if you like her.
what about texting her ? dont want to bombard her with text and i havnt but same time i dont want to make it even worse for he?
You might've been the rebound guy, and so she has an emotional attachment to you in an emotional support attraction kinda of way, but then she encounters other attractions to other people and then get torn between 2 guys (or more in some cases). And I've noticed in my own personal observation is that girls sometimes put guys on the back burner whom they feel they have some security with and are less likely to lose as emotional supports (friendship) in their life, and go after other guys. It's just a possibility though I can't say for sure. Keep us posted and good luck. I'd be patient though and pursue other opportunities.
I think that you are right she is not deserving for you. You have to stop all relation with her. Let her go and forget her.
As I understand you have only texted this girl, never met her. Am I right. I Believe she find you to pushing if you text her to often. Let her take the next step. You are absolutely right about that.
