Hi all, I just wanted to shared my experience with others, and see if anyone else has experienced the same. Ok I had sex in the Champagne Room. This is a dancer I met in a club I have been a few times. I met her that night. She did did not charge me anything. I did however pay the champagne bottle to the club, but at a relatively low price. I went back to the club a few days later, and she was not on shift. I asked all the girls if she was there. I went again the following Saturday, at around midnight, and she was in the club, on stage when I came in, and we were both thrilled to see each other. She came down and threw herself with her arms around me. She asked the manager if she could leave early, and we both soon left the club and went to my house, where we spent the night. We went out together on two dinner dates, and she slept over my house another two or three times. She presented me to her mother. She told me she was "going to spoil me" and we would "go somewhere together." I am very independent which a job I love, so in no way was I considering these offers seriously, but it seemed nice. I felt I was living a fantasy, and I liked her. This was all the more surprising since she suddenly broke up with me after two and half weeks, telling me her "responsibilities as a dancer conflicted with those of having a boyfriend." I stopped all contact though I did send her a text message after a month, to say Hi. I was surprised she answered, and she told me how much she missed me and wanted me. Though each time I would ask her to meet, she was evasive, and simply responded with a "I miss you too" or "I can't this weekend but I really want to," so I finally sent her a "I really like you but this isn't working" mail and offered my friendship.
Ladies and gentlemen.. of the G.E.D. class of 1999 I have one piece of advice for you No matter what a stripper tells you There's no sex in the Champagne Room.. NONE! Oh there's CHAMPAGNE in the Champagne Room But you don't want champagne.. you want sex And there's NO sex.. in the Champagne Room
I understand this doesn't happen too often. I think what made it special was the absence of any real pecuniary transaction. It was the feeling she wasn't at all trying to take advantage of me. I know I will probably never experience that again. I felt it was very innocent in its own way, very spontaneous. I don't go to exotic dance clubs too often, probably no more than fifteen or twenty times in my life, and I am very aware of the way dancers view the men who patronize the clubs. I really don't know what was going through her head. Maybe it was just emotional release. Maybe the club secretly recorded us in the champagne room ha ha ha. I just felt the experience I had with her was unique. I wanted to share.
It's been known to happen, and legally it's been ruled in court that there is no legal privacy protection since the act was committed at a public venue. You're probably on the internet somewhere with that chick.
I've been wondering. But if it were the case why would she have pursued some type of relationship with me, and come over to my house during those two weeks? I searched online for "champagne room spycams" and there is not much out there. Or are these videos only available for paying viewers, and is there a market for this? It's been in the back of my mind, even though I don't think it's possible. I feel a club would have too much to lose. This is what I recall. I paid her two lap dances, and it was late in the night. On the second, she took her own money out and paid it to the bouncer, to cover part of the dance, since at that moment I did not have the money on me. The lap dances were partly sexual. We were alone and the creepy bouncer kept on checking in, and she was urging me to go the champagne room "because she really wanted to have privacy." I refused at first. She said we could be intimate another time, outside of the club. At that moment I told myself I was perhaps missing an opportunity I would never recover, and after her promise she was not asking for any money from me, I agreed and paid the price of the bottle to the bar. She told me there were cameras in the lap dance room, so I know I'm on film actually doing something. But I highly doubt that recording would ever leave the club. When We came out of the room, there was practically no one in the club. But I remember the staff being there altogether, sort of watching us like a family discussing the turbulent behavior of two infatuated teenagers. The following day I had to work, and she told me I had to go! (it was 3am). She accompanied me to the door, pushed me out with the most ingenious look on her face, and watched as I left. The champagne room was full of mirrors. There could technically be/have been cameras, but am I only fantasizing? I mean what are the chances?
You're reading into what I said. I only said it's possible you could be somewhere online with that chick. I NEVER said that it wasn't possible that she was telling you the straightup truth about her having a genuine relationship with her causing conflicts with her work. Conflicts either in her mind or/and with her peers and boss and place of work. If I were you, I'd see her one more time and tell her you respect her wishes and that if she ever were to quit or change her profession to give you a call.