Really scared about pregnancy -- HELP ME!

Hi,
I'm currently a Junior in high school and me and my girlfriend quite frequently have sex. About 3 or 4 days ago, I felt like I was about to ejaculate so I pulled out and climaxed.. I looked down and the condom was broken. Most (almost all) of the cemen was on the couch and a little on her leg and stomach. I started to freak out and I began to become very worried. I'm not for certain that I ejaculated in or out of her even the slightest bit. She has been on birth control for about 33 days now, and she has very irregular period (not due to the birth control). I've heard that BC is supposed to regulate the period, and once done so, it means that the BC actually works. I don't know much about it, but I just hope it has kicked in just in case. We think the condom may have broke from when I pulled out the very last time to ejaculate. Being as scared as I was, I got my 18 year old friend to run to Walgreen's to buy my girlfriend and I a morning after pill (aka plan B pill), and she took it 1 or 2 hours after we had sex. I'll take anyone's opinions or suggestions.. Do you think I'm okay?? I'm still just a kid and I'm not ready to have a child. I am looking forward to college, and I just need help. Her period isn't EVERY month, so that's why we're worried because we will not know if she gets it or not. Thanks guys.

 

You're probably okay. I wouldn't worry about it. You don't know if any semen got inside of her; she most likely wasn't ovulating; and if so, she did the morning after pill. It sounds to me like you had all the possibilities pretty well covered.

 

Thanks so much!

 

If she's already on the pill and took additional hormones in the form of the morning pill, her cycles could be a bit off for the next few months. That's normal, because the body needs some time to adjust to all the hormones.

If she's taking the pill as prescribed, than she's safe during this time even if her cycles are irregular.

 

This is exacly why teens shouldn't have sex. I didn't have sex until I was 22 and a senior in college. I have slept with about 64 people, but I have never had a pregnancy scare, and I have never even used birth control. This is especially true considering the fact that most people are apparently pro life and almost always end up keeping the child or children. No I have never had an abortion. If I were you I would call it off and stop having sex until you get into that college of your dreams.

The only thing I get is that guys feel pressured to lose their virginities earlier. No guy wants to go to college a virgin. But you've already done the right of passage and thwat notch is in your belt.

 

But they didn't even have a realistic/real pregnancy scare!
Sure, they were unsure but that was because of inexperience not irresponsibility. That's a big difference.

They took every precaution I can think of. I don't know how anyone could be more responsible and careful, to be honest.

Samantha, implying that OP and his girlfriend have sex because of social pressure is just disrespectful towards both of them and their relationship.

 

No disrespect intended OP.

 

These teens are having more responsible sex than a lot of adults, so I don't see the issue here. Birth control pill, condom, and then the morning after pill when the condom breaks... you're pretty much 100% protected.

 

Sounds like you covered all your bases, good job op

 

There is a bit of false logic your post I want to point out to you Samantha, and while I get the premise of what you're saying, the argument you're postulating is that if you are in your 20's and in college then you're somehow at less risk for a pregnancy scare or sexually transmitted infection.

If it were true, I wouldn't see people I know in college as single parents with children or having friends going through pregnancy scares themselves despite them being in college.

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Sounds like you played it as safe as you two could.

 

sounds like you've covered your bases. she's on the pilll and you use a condom and she took the moring after pill so i don't thik you have anything to worry about. Keep in mind though that the two of you sould understand that if you want to play there could be consequences. i have heard that abstenance is the best but consider that 'percum' also carries sperm. I have a friend who puts on the condom just before ejactulating an she still became pregnant. (yes he's the father)