Repelled by another's energy

I feel like my roommate is just all negative energy and my energy repels him. I start to feel sick and just very un-easy if I'm in the same room as him. Has anyone else experienced something like this? Any advice? Can it be something besides negative energy repelling me?

 

I feel the same way about my roommates girlfriend. I have 2 other roommates as well and none of us like her. The problem is when they fight she's the kinds of person that gets violent and starts breaking dishes and windows and vandalizes the house, then she'll jump in her car and start driving up and down the street like a maniac. I have to call the cops every time they fight just to make sure nobody gets hurt.

So yeah when she's here all of us are uneasy and dont know if were gonna get waken up at 5am to another violent episode.

 

Here is a thought.
RainyDay in following your thread down with the combined energy this looks like a past life connection that ended poorly. Because there was no closure the repelling energy is like an energy imprint that continues to play itself out. Release the energy by being in nature as much as possable and offering love and blessing plus graditude for the lessons and experiences that are no longer needed. Visulize clipping the energy connection every times you feel or think of his name, and how you feel around him. Do not send bad thoughts or energy back at him as this will keep the cycle continuing.

Mike the energy here is about enabling bad behavior. Just because she has no bounderies she is used to people putting up with what ever she dishes out. Set bounderies and enforce them as a group.

 

I think my situation might be different. His energy is just very negative. A pessimist. He sees the bad in everyone and every situation..and he's grumpy as hell. And he tries to play the pity party card. Our energies are very different it seems.
I'm sorry, but I laughed when I read about your roommates girlfriend. I've been like that once during a break up..it's just funny to look back on. Blah, now I'm expecting someone to reply and say that I'm a psycho. Whatever. I do regret it though.
I'm a positive person, very quiet, I mind my business. But if I'm provoked, I'll stand up for myself if I need to. I don't like injustice.

 

Thank you for the reply Crone! It has just gotten worse. I'm just so disgusted if he just even walks in the room. I'm trying to find another living arrangement, but I'm sort of stuck here for the time being. That is exactly what I need, a break in nature.

 

could be an allergy . if that , you may be able to taste a substance
in the air that would account for your feeling ill . i'd think roommate
energy troubles could be with you in the kitchen even tho he's in a
bedroom sleeping and having a demented nightmare . oh , well . i think
i'm allergic to electricity . the rooms i like best have none .

 

I'll be having a great time and I'll be so happy and his energy just brings me so down. I'll feel like I'm about to pass out.

 

Its funny you post this because I'm going through something similar - except its with my brother.

I never understood why we didn't get along, even as kids. I haven't talked to him since December and this time apart is making me realize that its our energies. We've never had any MAJOR fights (you know, the kind where someone ends up hurt, in jail, or in court at the very least) so I can't understand it.

I hope you can find it in yourself and possibly help your roommate to understand the energy and find ways to resolve the negative between you two.

 

He sounds like his mind is heavily parasitized, your natural shields may be jumping up because people like that tend to inject the larvae into those around them. These parasites feed on drama and negativity and often prevent the host from being aware they are carrying them. Either way negative people are just not worth spending time around for many reasons.

 

I had a boyfriend like that. He was very negative and I'm a very happy-go-lucky, positive person so we clashed constantly. The problem was his negative energy was stronger than my positive energy - he was a very dominant male. We broke up because he said something really horrible to me....and a few days later he apologized and I told him I forgave him and something about the balance of power flipped after that. My positive energy became stronger and it was like he couldn't bring me down anymore. We didn't get back together but we became friends eventually because we have the same group of friends and saw each other constantly. I watched my energy and all our friends' energy rub off on him and now he's actually a really positive person. Its been a pretty amazing transformation.

So I know the situations aren't really similar but my advice is just to be the strongest person you can be around him. Kill him with kindness and don't ever let him bring you down. And if that doesn't work, cut him out of your life and find another living situation. It isn't worth it to keep a toxic person in your life.

 

..And to add perhaps an important element that I left out, we were romantically involved previously. I am not even sure what brought us together/attracted us in the first place. Opposites attract, I suppose. We are completely the opposite in every aspect. I go left, he goes right. I go up, he goes down.

 

This makes a lot of sense and I think it does apply to my situation. I have always been so positive. Sometimes I even thought to myself, "wow, I am 'disgustingly' optimistic and positive...I wonder if it's annoying to some people." I feel he is the most negative person I've ever met in my life and it just floors me.
Maybe that is true, or maybe it's just that I'm weak right now. Mentally I don't feel okay because I've been dealing with depression for the past couple of years. I still have a great deal of my optimism, it's being tainted by him though.

 

these are the most Really neg people i ever dealt with seriously .
they had been bothersome tormentors :

2 demented clowns
2 murderers
2 rooms full of angry lesbians
2 dark shadows
1 demon

only the demon was i asked to , then compelled to , and then
did i whack into oblivion .

 

Sometimes I feel he is a demon with very dark energy..maybe I'm giving him too much power in my thinking.

 

You're exactly right. The problem is my roommate keeps letting her come back and the rest of us don't have a say because it's his house. I'm just biding my time and planning to move soon.

 

I deal with someone being like that once or even once in while, but this is a regular thing. It's like that situation of a girl being in an abusive relationship and she keep going back to the guy, except in this case the roles are reversed.

 

That was kind of hard to follow. You're saying it's like an abusive relationship but instead of me going back to him, I'm repelling him, correct?

 

I was actually talking about my situation with my roommate and his girl friend. In my case the roommate is the girl and she's the abusive boyfriend.

 

I can see that now..and I wasn't sure if you were referring to me or your roommate. I guess I'm wrapped up in my own situation..

 

I think the best solution for either of us is to have no roommates, thats my goal.