Religon & Partners Sexual Preferences

Do you have a partner who is religious & has certain sexual acts that they either disagree on receiving or giving or are seen as unacceptable that are otherwise acceptable in modern day life & are not seen as gross acts.
Is anal or oral sex a gross act in your opinion?
Just because some of us are more adventurous sexually than others, or want to be, does that make us seem too weird or just who we are ?
As some of you have read, I do some strange / weird things to myself & that's just because I enjoy experimenting with myself sexually.
I'm not religious but my wife is & there are certain things I have tried sexually with her that she see's as very unacceptable & some she can't give me any reasons for not allowing me to try that are not as gross as she thinks they are. Is giving a legal aged female oral sex gross in your opinion & if yes, why ? Oral & anal sex are now just seen as acceptable normal acts that are enjoyable by some & seen as disgusting by others ?

 

My wife doesn't like anal sex. I mean, there's no way. She'll blow me occasionally -- as long as I don't cum in her mouth. She's OK with it -- but it's not something she particularly enjoys all that much -- so I wait for her to initiate.

Otherwise, we have sex a lot and it's mostly very good and sometimes it's fantastic. I'm satisfied with that -- so I just let the other stuff go and I don't worry about it. Sometimes you have to compromise -- and if the marriage and sex is good then just learn to deal. There are more important things than you getting off just the way you want to.

 

I'm an atheist and so is my husband. About sex acts, we kind of don't wanna try the same things. Some things he doesn't do, but is OK with me doing them with other men. We're swingers.

The big problem is not finding things gross, but certain things he won't do, because they don't bring him pleasure, and he doesn't wanna me doing them myself when we're having sex, because it turns him off. Namely, I need clit stimulation to orgasm. He won't touch my clit, and he doesn't want me doing it to myself while we fuck. I can masturbate, but he doesn't wanna see it.

This is changing now, but it has been like that for almost two decades. The end result was no orgasm for me when we were having sex, only the two of us. He didn't mind other men doing that for me. So, you see, no need for religion to spoil things.

Now, about your situation, it doesn't matter if we don't find oral gross, does it? Her opinion is the only one that counts on things pertaining her body. I do find it weird if she doesn't want you doing things with yourself, but that's just my opinion.

 

Sometimes I had the idea she didn't want me kissing her lips after giving her oral but that was only one of her reasons she doesn't accept that type of sexual act. She told me she doesn't agree with it & I should keep my mouth away from that area. She doesn't mind me licking / kissing her upper legs just not directed at her vaginal area. She knows nothing about what I do to myself sexually when she's not home.

 

This is an interesting post for me because my boyfriend was raised very Catholic. I mean his mom is from Portugal and is strict even now when his in his mid twenties. And he is quite kinky. There's almost nothing we haven't tried or that he has been taboo with. I've heard of people not doing things because of religion which I can understand but I think it's because of how strict his being raised and stuff is why he wants to branch out that way. Obviously we're not married (I know, I know) I'm also a catholic woman so I know.

 

^^^^ I think most people are very selective about what dogmas of their religion they wanna follow. This world would be a much worst place if all religious people would decide to follow all dogmas.

I'm happy for you you give yourself the last word on how you live (sex outside of marriage, kinky sex with a bf). More power to you.

 

Many females / males have their own beliefs of what's acceptable to them sexually & not & it can make one feel short changed in some ways. That's why some may tend to cheat on their partner to do it with another who's a lot more adventurous or is willing to give them what they want to fulfil their own sexual needs & desires. We can make some of our fantasises come true but sometimes at a cost & not just relationship wise.

 

Hey nz male, you do realize that there are hundreds of different forum topics here, don't you?

I don't think I have ever seen a post from you that wasn't questions about other peoples sex lives.
You even give me the creeps.:hide:

You sure you're not 12?

 

I have posted in the health forums as well concerning some health issues I had & have .
Also in the area of NZ I love travelling to for holidays.
There are other things I can contribute to that are not sexually related to at all & are looking for the ones I can do this within.
I do have other interests / hobbies that I have posted in several times in other forums but they are not within Hip Forums Topics.
I have also posted photos of some things I own that are unique or belong to others. But they are interests I have had for many years & still do.

 

just messing with ya....

 

Hahaha... I seriously just had the thought of... what would I think if I looked through the comp. history or my husband left something on screen or whatever n I found out he had a name on some forum like this and looked at his posts and saw allllll those threads.... It's not that anythings wrong w it, it's just... I would really really wonder why he hits on a forum and asks other ppl such questions- so...often. It would be weird to say the least.

(do you get off on that? or... are you trying to write some kind of book or...??)

 

Wow, people, let's not hammer curiosity. Let's not try to make a curious person feel bad, watched, weird. Asking questions is generally a good thing.

 

I agree with you - I have learned a few things on this site I never knew before & have attempted a few things out that others do that I thought were strange & only to find out I enjoyed some of the experiences I have found to enjoy doing more often than I thought I would.
Yes, call me weird if you like but I have not mentioned some things that some would consider as gross. And I have done a few very unnatural sexual acts on myself that are just how I like to do when alone at home.

 

Couldn't say, as in my social loop there's very few religious persons. Though now that I think about it, there's something enticing about the idea of a woman giving herself to me, knowing full well that this means eternal roasting in Hell as a consequence - now that's love, ain't it?

But seriously, religion and sex tend to go together poorly. Unless the former is used as an excuse to only do anal before marriage, so as to, in a very literal sense, remain a virgin.