i am a man, 20 years old, i live with my girlfriend whom i love very much, and our son who is 6 months old. Me and my gf like to have fun in bed, and lately have been experimenting with anal play, i like to have anal sex, or finger her in the butt, and last night i finally went for it and licked her asshole, this turns me on greatly as well as it does her, but lately i have also been doing some ass play on myself, and it feels great! so here is where i get hung up, i want her to finger my asshole, and massage my prostate, but i also have this crazy urge to take it in the butt from another man. I am not attracted to men at all, the thought of anything else with a man, kissing, or oral sex, or snuggling, ect. does not turn me on, i don't want to do any of those things with another guy, but the thought of a man close to my age, strictly fucking me in the ass turns me on, i wanna feel a penis inside me, and feel him cum inside me. i know im not gay, i guess im a touch bi, and i love my girlfriend very much, and love fucking her, vaginally, orally, anally, but how do i tell her this? also, how do i approach her and ask about her fingering me or possibly using a strap on?
Here's an idea : Make a written list of things you want to try with her & her with you & see what she ticks off on it. Then go from there & see if anything she put an x beside if she's willing to rethink & may consider doing it in return of something you didn't consider doing. Dare her to go out of her comfort zone even if its just once. She may just like doing something she thought was too kinky? Re: your thoughts of having sex with another guy but with nothing but only anal being performed sounds like what I would try as well. Anal may sound kinky to a lot of people but pleasurable to many others who do it. Is anal play kinky or not? Good luck & don't force her to do something but she may just consent to & really surprise herself & you.
I don't think anal is kinky at all, I'm bi and so is my fiancee, and we love it. I had a gf once who knew I was bi and enjoyed using a strap on with me, so I say ask her, but don't make it a condition. She's gotta have an easy way to say no, if she doesn't want to. You never know, she may fancy the idea. NZ Male's Idea of a list sounds good, at least that way you'll get to talk about it.
