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Welcome Taco

 

Hiiii. I'm Dee. I'm 18 and I'm currently in a LDR with a girl who I really, really care about. (It's crazy how compatibility we are). I hope to make a few friends on this forum! Thanks.

 

I'm a 22 year old law student from Sydney, Australia...

I explained in a previous post that I'm currently struggling with a rather recent (about a year) attraction to women - which along with forums, makes two things I'm new at :S Really jumping in the deep end here!

I'm currently in a 4+ year relationship with a guy which has obviously been complicated by my new feelings. Trying to work it out the best I can though...

Soo that's about it I think... I've been lurking around a little while now but thought it's about time I said hi...

 

Hi there everyone. New to the forum...

I'm a 27 yo lesbian on here for a bit of chat and advice when needed. Out of the closet and happy to discuss almost anything!

:sunny:

 

Waddup girls-who-love-girls,

I'm Dianna, in my last year of highschool here in Canada, going to Montreal for University though what I really intend to do is pursue a career as a lyricist and artist, thus I will probably be spending time in the states in the near future. I've always known that I love women, but never accepted it until a couple months ago. Men are meh, okay sometimes, so I guess I'm not a raging lesbian, but I prefer not to subscribe to any labels. I love music (all genres), literature, poetry, film, exploration, anything really that opens the mind and generates new experiences.

Anyways, hit me up whenever, I'd love to get to know you lovely ladies from around the world,

Best,
Dianna

 

I opened this thread to do my due diligence, and my mind floated away. Seems like a nice place to be. Hi perfect strangers!

 

Hi everyone.

 

Hello everyone

 

Hello everyone, I'm Megan, I'm 19 and I live in the UK. I'm off to uni in September to study Photography. I love anything art and music Can;t wait to get talking to you guys xxx

 

Hi all! I'm Bo. I'm 47 and have been in a long term relationship for 10 years. I'm on disability. I was a software engineer but the stress got to me. Now I'm a gamer. I play 50 to 70 hours a week. Trying to reduce that number and get more active in other things. Look forward to chatting.

 

My name is Sarah and I am looking to connect with other lesbian to let them know The wait is almost over, we are so excited to share with you the coming launch of our brand new official website Lesbian Lifestyle.

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My name is Alejandra and I'm a 29. I decided to join this forum and let all my frustrations out about coming out lol. This well probably get pretty long so I apologize in advance. For those that read all the way through...I thank you for putting up with my long-windedness.

First, I came out as bisexual when I was 19 and didn't realize I was actually completely lesbian until my first relationship with a guy ended at 25. More on that relationship later.

I always felt different growing up but I just didn't know what that indescribable difference was at the time. I didn't deal with it very well either. I went through periods of complete solitude and isolation especially in my teens. Despite having a gay older brother, that still didn't make things easier for me. My adolescence was filled with depression, anxiety, excruciating loneliness, confusion, fear and suicidal tendencies. I had no friends and no support. Mostly because I couldn't deal with the mess that was my life back then.

Growing up in a Catholic home didn't help things either. My parents were in denial with my brother being gay yet they still loved him the same. I was just so paralyzed in my fear that there were days I didn't want to leave my house let alone go to school. In and out of therapy and taking meds for 5 years couldn't suppress my pain inside. So many tears that I shed.

Once I got to college, life became a little better yet there was this fear inside of me that couldn't deal with my attraction for both sexes. I have always felt that I was more attracted to women more than men. Which terrified me. I met my ex-b/f in college and despite my correct assumption that he was totally gay we began to date in 2005. The relationship was a sham from the beginning. But there was something about him I did love. He just seemed so free to me. He still saw men on the side and I could have had my women but I didn't. I was paralyzed with fear still. My insecurities stopped me from pursuing it. I didn't know at the time what attracted him to me. All I knew was I still was living a lie on the inside and out. It went on this way for 4 years. We finally broke it off in 2009. I was upset but yet relieved if that makes any sense. However, I didn't realize how dependent I was on him. When I get comfortable with a habit I unfortunately keep it. He was someone I always admired cause he walked with this ability to attract people and show his sexuality and personality where ever he went. Then there was me...morose me. :nopity:

It took the next 3 years to finally be comfortable enough with myself to say...I'm gay. Where I am in my life right now is...I want to date and be free. Well, I'm freer now then I've ever been before thank goodness. Just new frustrations creep up. It's always been difficult to make friends let alone have a girlfriend. I dated a couple of girls but nothing ever came of it. I don't even have a sex life...:blush5:

I identify myself as a hard femme. My appearance is that of a girl who loves the vintage style hence my picture. :daisy: I'm mostly attracted to other femmes which is were it gets even more frustrating. No one could tell I'm gay and when I say I am many can't even believe it. Killer shyness kills me too. But I know I have to get out there and meet likeminded women. I don't even have a circle of lesbian friends. Most of my friends are gay men and tell me they can't believe I'm gay because they've never seen me with a girl. My life is still pretty lonely. I have glimmers of hope however. I don't want to make it seem like my life is one big social gay nightmare. I'm proud of how far I've come. Just to see the light at the end of the tunnel is enough for now. Thank you for allowing me to vent. :hurray:

 

Very nice intro Femme, thanks for sharing, and welcome to the forum. Like most of these stories there are similarities to what I went through, and am still going through. Like you, I do not have any lesbian friends locally. Thus the reason why I spend time on these forums. But unlike you I am not put off by this fact. I love my friends, and I do have a couple of bi-sexual friends. All my male friends are straight, probably because I have more in common with them than I do with gay guys. (we technically have the same orientation for loving women, lol) I would not worry too much about your "non-lesbian" appearance, lol. I think that stuff is rather silly to be honest. I tell people I am a girl and thus I dress and look like one, no big revelation there. Sounds like you could use a good dose of self confidence though. I'm sorry that your teen years and later have been so difficult. "There is nothing to fear, but fear itself." ~ Franklin D. Roosevelt

 

Hello everyone, I'm ShowerShoes. I am 30 and I live in the deep south. I used to be a member of Technodyke and Dramanonymous back in the day and I came here in hopes of making new friends and maybe reconnecting with old ones as well. The gay community where I live isn't nonexistent but isn't very prominent, either, so I look forward to making some new like-minded friends.

 

I found this page, really is very Coooool!!!! sexualify(dot)com
You will enjoy it

 

Hiya

IM Kristina form Canada, Im almost 16, im still in high school. I think im a lesbian because ive been playing around and exploring with my best friend. I dont know what to do. Should i give up guys altogether or keep exploring.

Any advice?

thanks

K

 

Hi i'm 34butch. 34 year old well 35 by the end of this month . Have been attracted to woman since elementary school. Had a few serious long term relationship. but single at the moment

 

Um hello all, call me Ara, I'm a 18 year old high-school student.
I'm on my way to finding my real self, but i'm already a hundred percent sure that i'm gay.
The reason why i joined this forum is because I've been feel so alienated even by the fellow gay girls around me. I feel alone, insecure, and afraid.
So i hope that y'all will be able to help me adaptating.

Nice to meet you all~ :crowngrin:

Here's my twitter:
mod note: don't do that

 

Welcome new peeps!

 

Hey! My name is Tricia, I was searching Lesbian groups and stumbled on this forum (how ironic) so I figured I would check it out.
I recently just turned 30, im with a woman 18 years older, we have been together over 5 years and I am just as in love with her as I was the first months we were together! I know... how cliché and mushy . She has a 13 y/o "son" so its gonna be a trying few years to come, after all we have been through already Thankfully we have a mutual respect and he listens to me without much hesitation!
Basically, im just checking out what's going on with other lesbians around the world! Hey how bout that bill not passing!! *wootwoot*