A couple of months ago, I took advvantadge of my gf being away for a couple of weeks and tried total abstinence, girls and hand to see what it does, see if I would get some stronger sensations after that some extrea sensitivity and so on.... After that when I got intimate with her, the initial excitation got me real hard to begin with, but got flacid shortly after and did not manage anything except finishing myself off with the hand.... Since that, I noticed having fewer and fewer morning erections and getting intimate with my gf got tougher and tougher... seems I need way more preliminaries to "get it up" than before, in the end we always do it somehow... Fantasizing during the day about something sexy used to get me hard right away and now nothing. Even masturbating takes more time to get to the end... I am 25 y.o and completely healthy apart from this. I do not know whether the initial abstinence is the origin of my issues... I don't see how this could be just psychological since even the morning erection and spontaneous ones are problematic... What shoud I do? Thank you
This does seem mysterious. You think you are healthy, but maybe you are not. Maybe you have some kind of circulatory problem. I would see a doctor to rule this out. If you find out you are healthy, then I would consider seeing a therapist, since little worries about erections can easily grow into a lot of anxiety.
You could try horny goat weed before Viagra! over the counter, not expensive and it's definitely lived up to it's name in my experience. I had a similar problem to you when me and my gf started going out but that turned out to just be nerves which have now gone away. Have you been consistently sexually active before? I'm 23 and I hadn't really.
Try sliding a finger up your anus. that makes it get really hard. try it when you're alone to see if it works for you
Hmm, Viagra eh? Well gee Doctors Sunfighter and SteveBrad, thanks for your advice. We did not know about that. God bless and thanks for dropping in! And mind the door don't hit your ass on the way out.
I agree with sunfighter that maybe you are unhealthy, but before go to the doctor, you can test yourself whether you are facing the problem or not, here are soem tips and facts that you have to test. Fact 1: When you wake up in the morning, is your penis is in erected position or not, if no then there is a problem. Test 1: Do kegel exercise and jelqing exercise and feel the sensation. Avoid 1: Strictly Avoid masturbating.
Talk therapy may be the initial treatment option for men with anxiety or stress related erectile dysfunction. Relationship difficulties, work problems, financial woes, and other, everyday stress can trigger erectile dysfunction. Talking about your worries and stressors to a licensed therapist can ease sexual anxiety and provide you strategies to boost intimacy.
