Hi everyone, I'm a single guy with pretty ridiculous sex drive. I word long days and even still I usually feel the need to masturbate 4-5 times with the few hours I actually have. Sometimes I will masturbate 10 minutes immediately after masturbating. My point is that I feel my sexual desire is interfering with my life. I don't want to think about sex for long periods of time after work, nor do I want it to be the only thing I think about after work. So my question is, is there a way for me to safely reduce it without permanently damaging it? I guess ideally I'd like to take a natural supplement that surpresses my sexual desires to a more manageable level. Thanks and I appreciate your help!
You have everything you already need. Channel that energy somewhere else, I recommend creativity and/or charity. You will feel better in every way
If it's interfering with your life and you're not sure what to do about it, the best bet is to seek professional help from a psychologist or sex therapist.
Goddamn, no one here gives useful advice. Sexless_harpy makes it seem like there's something wrong with you. There isn't. Mr. Writer, sexual energy doesn't get "channeled" that way. If anything that'd just make it worse. I'm not sure if you still hang around here, or remember this thread, but I'll post anyways because I've been researching this myself and this might end up helping someone. There are things you can do with hobbies, meditiation, medication, herbs, etc, that can help. The best bet is something natural. If you have some sort of interest, like cars, computers, etc, anything that can become a hobby that draws your attention. Preferably something you can do at home so you don't have to see women and get reminded of your overwhelming sexuality. If there's nothing that really interests you that much, there are herbal supplements that can help too. I've tried something called "Libidno", you can look it up, sometimes it has a calming effect but if there's too much "stimulus" (like if you see lots of hot women at work) its not strong enough to really counter it. Other than that, you'd have to get more...serious about it. A word of warning, if you do go to a sex psych or therapist they will tell you you're wrong and try to force your sexuality to be a certain way. That's not true, everyone is different and you shouldn't try to force yours to be what it isn't. If it IS bothering you though you can talk to them and see if you can't get medication. If its affecting you to the point where its making you depressed, you can get anti-depressants that will kind of "silence" it for a while. There are also hormones you can take like Depo Provera, but they're more dangerous since they affect your testosterone directly. You can also just say you're hypersexual and need help managing it, and they can get you medicated.
