"Size doesn't matter; it's how you use it"

In response to the never-ending questions about penis size, one quite often hears this response.

I'm curious to hear women's opinions as to what this means to them? Let me stress that this isn't a thread about dick size, or even foreplay; it's about hearing women's experiences of being with guys who 'use their dick well', or indeed those who don't 'use their dick well'. Are we just talking about the way that they thrust? If so, what sets the best guys you've been with in that respect apart from the rest?

 

Read my post again, especially the bit in bold!

 

"This isn't a dick size thread, I just have a question about the size of dicks"

 

I understood your question.
I just wanted to say that.

 

http://magicbaltimore.com/3381500/size-does-matter-women-women-prefer-tall-men-large-penises/

 

Same shit again and again and we all know what the true answer is. Does size matter is the most loaded question in the history of mankind.

 

For some girls size matters, for some girls girth is more important. I'm girth before size...and remember the most nerve endings are only in the first 3 inches of a vagina, along with the G spot, because the vagina is only 3 to 4 inches anyway, before it elongates when aroused to prepare for penetration.

Having a big penis but just thrusting in and out and ejaculating within a minute is no use to anyone.

Having a 5 inch penis and alternating speeds, force and grinds with intensity and taking a good while before coming so different positions can be done is everything.

There, question answered. Another woman might feel different though.

 

Except the guy that can go have a nap after a minutes work

 

You've summed it up quite nicely.
Thread can be locked now

 

Yes.... I agree it needs to be locked

 

:crowngrin:

 

http://www.xvideos.com/video3955227/pool_party_goes_crazy
This is a link to a home made porn, a pool party. There're 2 pairs banging and notice how a hot girl wants to change a partner for other one with big d1ck. Later she clearly enjoys sex more, which can be seen from more and loud moaning. She also admits excitement by "oh, it's so big" few times and you can see that she has more strong sensations because she's strongly bending her feet. Also she seems to enjoy a lot BJing that big d1ck. ....It's all so obviously, bigger is generally better.

 

Size matters.

But whether or not size matters, does not matter. It has been explored ad nauseum, and the answer is quite clear: to varying amounts, for varying reasons, to different people.

So seriously, fuck off. Go fap to the other million threads about it, but keep this trash out of new posts.

 

No it's not, not for all girls, just because one girl prefers it in a movie. A 10 inch is useless if a guy is not a good fuck, and a 10 inch dick does not automatically make any guy a good fuck.

The biggest I have had is almost 9 inch. Apart from my husband, the best sex was from a barely even 6 inches, but it had plenty of girth so touched the first 3 inch of nerves inside me admirably and hit my G spot in the right way most times.

 

But this sounds like you assume that guys with big penises are bad in bed. Let's rather think following situation. There're two guy with more or less same body shape and same sex skills.One has standard equipment, other one owns big stick. Who would do it better?The guy with bigger stick, of course. Although he offers same skills as other guy, but on the on the other had, he's equipped with more girth and more length. More girth means more friction and vagina stretching (thus more nerve stimulation and as a result better feeling), while more length means better feel of "fuller" vagina, more thrusting and hitting, less d1ck slipping out and more positions available. Plus there also better physiological effects behind big tool ...

Come on it is just basic physics.

See? You said it for yourself .

Here is an interesting video; https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KFFdNwb4kHA It's a prank about a guy sleeping on a beach with big erection, and just look how woman approach him and actually touch his d1ck. If I did the same with tits, I would go in jail for sexual harassment.
Or this one https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XVNSbTPp9u0 Notice how most of them gets turned on, by at the end they say size is not important. LOL

 

Guys (in particular RooRshack), read and understand the post before criticising another thread about dick size. Maybe it was a weird roundabout way of stating my question, but it wasn't actually about dick size AT ALL, as I said in the bolded sentence.

Thank you to Inca for actually responding to the question a little bit.

 

Depends, since the vagina only stretches to 6 inch on average (give or take an inch) - a 10 inch is no better than 6 inches (give or take an inch) if both guys are equally good at sex. There is a reason why the average size is 6 inch....

Talking about "physics" any more than 3 inches is technically a waste as that is where the nerves reside, but the vagina does double in length so 6 inch is perfectly fine.

Thank you for the thanks, it is nice to be appreciated

I think too much emphasis is put on the penis and it's size. When you love someone it becomes much more than "just sex."

Ok, if you are single and you like having different sexual partners, things like size might be important to you but it's not the be all and end all. Knowing how to turn a woman on fully rather than just fingering then penetrating is far, far more important than dick size.

 

No problem!

And just to try and be clear, my question was about what women consider to be "using your dick well", which you answered when you referred to "alternating speeds, force and grinds with intensity and taking a good while before coming"... I only referred to dick size because that's the context in which you normally hear about how well guys use their dicks; I am not interested in discussing dick size at all.

So if anyone else has any comments on my question, I'm still interested to hear them! Do you prefer hard and fast? long or short thrusts? More of a grinding motion? What have been your best experiences in this respect? And your worst?

P.S. If a mod can remove the reference to penis size in the thread title, then please do.

 

I prefer it all in one go.... Fast, slow, pulling out and rubbing against my clit, long thrusts (not keen on short) grinding some and then slowing right down and hen giving almighty thrusts to cum.

I know you wanted to know about penis experiences, but imho, sex is not all about the penis or penetration. A man who knows how to use his hands and caresses you is just as important.

Worst experience: quick rub of clit and straight in, 10 thrusts and cumming -absolute waste of time and energy. I am a foreplay girl, I love foreplay....if I do not get adequate foreplay to build me up, then the penetration feels less intense and I just want it over with.

Playing with my clit for five minutes is not foreplay. I also love to give foreplay. A good 30 minutes at the very least before penetration and I am a happy bunny.

 

HAHA, this cracked me up...ad nauseum. Yeah, this one is kind of played out....:beatdeadhorse5: