My girlfriend is waiting to have sex with until she visits her gynecologist and gets put on the pill. So far, all I can get out of her are handjobs. I'm sick of them. I have my own two hands. I can do that myself. She says she wants to give me oral but she keeps bailing out at the last moment. Is there any non-penetration things she can do other than handjobs and blowjobs for me? Please let me know.
breasts, if shes got em. fellatio is fun, she should go for it. if your communication is good then you should be able to discuss what feels good or doesnt. has she made an appointment? she could be putting you off. not enough information really. or, you know, you could show some fortitude and wait.
Sorry if I misunderstood you, but it sounds like she's doing things to you when she actually isn't ready. I'd give her time. Don't misunderstand my post as criticism. I totally understand sexual frustration. But since she's young and new to it, it'd be really a mistake to push things. Give her the time she needs, no pressure to give you anything. If you can't live with it, perhaps she isn't the girl for you. Pushing for sexual favors is always wrong, but when the partner is new to it, it's worst than wrong. Good luck in dealing with your desires and her current limitations. I wish you two well.
You are going down on her right? Just keep doing that lots and well and she is sure to want to return the favour. If you are not then don't expect it in return!
Does your girlfriend let you masturbate her or let you give her oral? Does she let you touch her body anywhere else - breasts, butt etc?
Are you able to use condoms while waiting for the pill, or is that not possible? You seem to only mention your (lack of) pleasure, how are you pleasuring her? If she is new to it all I agree with Just A Woman - don't pressure her and consider her needs too.
