So me and my girlfriend have been together for for a couple years now, we are really close but sexually we are having a lot of problems. I'll give you some background idea of us before my question. Basically: - as of now we have sex maybe 1 to 2 times a week, which i DO NOT think is enough. i really love to have sex and would like to have sex more often. - i guess im "well-endowed" and usually when we are in the doggy-style position, if i go all the way in i believe i hit her cervix and its tremendously painful for her, to the point she might cry and usually sex is ruined then. but other positions we are usually fine, no problems at all. - we tried anal sex a few times, she said it felt kind of weird, but she would be soooooo wet. we did it more as a love for each other, share an experience anal, but one time i started to go fast and be rough and pulled her hair and i guess she felt really dirty after that and didnt like that at all and we have had any anal sex for years. i guess the times we did do it also, it was with a condom and no lube but my spit, which could have made it uncomfortable, but i know she wont like the lubey feeling in her ass, i just know she'll complain. I REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY want to have anal sex, what should i do!? please dont tell me theres no chance, theres always a way, i need to be extremely sensitive about it though. - she doesnt really like giving oral sex, she doesnt like spit getting around her mouth, and she doesnt enjoy it and it doesnt turn her on, vs if i eat her out it turns me on sooo much. so when she returned the favour sometimes, shes just doing it "for me, cause she loves me" and i dont like that, i want her to do it because she wants to do it like how i sometimes just want to give her oral for hours and hours. - our sex routine is the exact. same. thing. every time. we have sex, she kinda rushes it i feel, she doesnt like have sex for a long time and then after i cum, i have to always make her cum by fingering her for about 5 mins which gets really tiring and sometimes after sex i really dont want to do that, its really annoying, plus its the same thing every time. - i want to maybe get like a small vibrator for her to use, she didnt like that idea, said she "didnt need it" i just want it for her as another experience for us sexually.... - she literally ONLY wants to have missionary sex and then me make her cum, i asked her isnt that boring, she seemed kind of content with that, she said id like a little bit of change, but it didnt seem like she really cared... so my main concerns is, how can i get her to have anal sex, what should i do about oral sex, and just wanting to explore and try new things!!?? i keep seeing and hearing about girls being freaky with their boyfriends, not cause their sluts, but cause they have do that stuff with someone they love and i feel like im REALLY missing out, but i just want to do it with my girlfriend. someone please help me its really depressing me, you have no idea... please i really liked to get a girls opinion, if i could maybe private message you to discuss maybe certain issues you feel comfortable or knowledgeable in, im happy to do that, or just on the board here. i really appreciate any help! thanks so much everyone!
Use a Jedi mind trick on her: look deep into her eyes and say something like, 'You WANT my well-endowed cock up in your ass, you WANT to please, let go of your resistances, give in to my will', etc. Works a charm for me every time, bro.
poor fucker....op...if you are still here.... squirt ora-gel up in that ass first and freeze her up.... she wont know she's sore for hours........it is how married men get anal of seeping wives
I guess my question is how have you let it get this bad for years and years? If you are so close with her why is this question being asked on a forum to strangers? It sounds like a simple case of two people heading down the wrong path together . . . you have needs as a human being which she is unwilling to fill, and this will only lead to unhappiness and maybe even deceit further down the line, when you finally can't take anymore and cheat on her. It's obviously important, it's torturing you. And that is normal. I would let her know how unhappy you are, and that you are thinking hard about whether staying with her is the right thing for you.
Its easier for me to hit bottom doing doggy also . You might trying putting your dick in only an inch or two . p.s. I know what its like to hit bottom with a woman .
ya i've had a few girls eyes bulge out too...hit bottom every time does that mean i can state ''i'm well endowed''? ok...all the women were little people....they make my junk look enormous...does that make a difference
With me , I think the women were not that deep. I have known some shallow women . Large women , but not that deep . Some women are just not that deep .
Mine is 157 mm ( for real) + or - a mm. That lets me uses nic. like jim157mm , james269 and jim1957usa Yes I have hit bottom with some of the women that I have been with . On this wounderfull thing we call the world wide web many guys turn 4 inchs into 9.5 +
The late porn star John Holmes had one of the biggest at either 11 or 13 inchs. He was willing to hold his up to a ruler for pic.s , of corse for a porn star thats cool any way . These links are adults only . http://www.rame.net/faq/deadporn/johnholmes.html http://www.wikiporno.org/wiki/John_Holmes I will take a pic of mine next to a ruler , but will only share in p.m. ,if asked .
op is claiming nine five ? holyshit....no wonder she doesnt want him in her ass dude...you need to find the ''larger''women that can handle that monster lol dont worry bro...they have great personalties shallow women?...classic ya me too...met a couple shallows myself
