GF is Bi Curious- Wants 3sum!

Thanks for your responses. I'm don't think I'd be willing for that to happen, but who knows- my sexual journey has only just begun! Thank you again! I'm going to wait it out until I feel comfortable enough to try it out together. I really appreciate you taking your time to help me

Now, I must be off to get drunk and see in the new year!

Happy new year everyone

 

I was being facetious in response to Jsmart.

C/S,
Rev J

 

She's only 19. And from the sound of it she's got a lot of growing and maturing to do sexually. This is not uncommon for a lot of girls that age. My advice is enjoy the ride while it last. If you try and hold her back, she'll likely experiment and move on without you anyways. Because of her current maturity level, the odds of you staying together look grim. But you never know... just take it in stride and try to learn from the experience for the future.

 

She's 19 & obviously enjoying the pleasures she's giving / recieving from another female (what ever age her female sex partner is ?) & if she's getting sexually turned on by another female. She's got me feeling horny just thinking & wondering what they do to each other. Enjoy your sexuality but safely

 

You should do what you feel is right. If you dont feel comfortable with her being with another girl , then dont do it. Many people here can disagree with you, try to call you selfish, insecure, immature, whatever it takes for you to join their side, and it will be human of you to try to take their side in a subconscious way to try to fight these accusations AKA "im not insecure so ill let this happen".


Do what you feel is right. Remember that a relationship is two sides, if your GF wants to do another girl and you dont want it then you have full rights to say NO.
The same way i want endless orgies with hot girls but my GF has full rights to tell me NO.


My opinion? Dont try to make sex an activity.
SEX is an act of love, it is a special connection between two people.
When my GF and I have sex, there is always a moment when we stop and say "i love you" to each other, and we both smile and are so happy and so crazy in love that its the best feeling out there. Dont ruin that type of connection with your gf if you have it.

Remember, my friend, a relationship only needs two people. If you feel you're okay with another person in it then go right ahead. If not, then dont. Either way is fine.

The problem here is that a lot of people try to play it into a game, thus losing the love and developing a strangle belief that the more crazy their sex is then the more likely theyll find true love. This most likely stems from a cold childhoood and a lack of love. Much like the Daddy Issues Syndrome a girl can have.
Sad thing is at the end of the day they have a cold body to hug and not a warm connection.
AGAIN, THATS JUST MY OPINION, SOME WILL ARGUE WITH ME, I DONT CARE.

Humans have a bad habit of forcing their beliefs on other people.

Sorry for the long post but i felt it was needed.
Remember, do whatever it is you feel you want to do , if she doesnt respect your decision, then its not meant to be, plenty of fish in the sea.

 

jsmart415... Thank you so much for your reply. It's just what I wanted to here. I feel exactly the same way re: sex and I believe it would cheapen it by involving a third leg. We're going to mix it up a bit- in the shower, blindfolds, handcuffs, etc- but only the 2 of us- people in love. She's told me that if I don't want to do it we won't and I really glad that she respects my opinion on the matter, she's only slightly curious anyway and she'd never do it on her own- I'm far more important than a slight curiosity.

Thank you very much. Happy new year.

 

Your young do it! If it works out great! Good times! If she finds out she's gay, your young enough to find someone else.

 

Well girls are naturally more curious. I've felt like that myself, exactly like that, in fact. Like other people said, you're both young, natural to be curious and want to explore. I'd say go for it, but not before you're comfortable with it. Could be a lot of fun

 

would you rather marry her, and then find out she's a lesbian?
just get the threesome, and leave the dice fall where they may

 

dude count yourself lucky, i think id tell her you understand the curiosity and would like to be involved, try it out see how it goes, hopefully bring you too closer, sometimes the rules can be picked up along the way, depends on you and your girlfriend. Hope it works out for you. Keep in mind we only live once mate.