Hey I just need someone to talk to really or advice if you could give it...But I think I might be bisexual or gay. I am female and ive had relationships with guys and ive had sex but the idea of sex with a guy is so awkward, I mean i enjoy sex but its so awkward when its a guy and I just dont feel like me. If guys like me or come up to me in clubs i kiss them but if they want more i shut them down because i just dont feel comfortable at all and i feel violated and unsure ...thats not to say i dont find guys attractive There are some i find cute and i do connect on an emotional level with them just not a physical one . Ive never had sex with a girl but i have kissed hugged etc and i feel much more comfortable about that i i do find some of them very attractive and would like to imagine physical things and I would love to try with a femail and to have a physical relationship with a girl but emotionally i cant connect with girls becuase i went to an all girls school and that was really hell hence most my friends are male...and i have no idea how i could even find a girl that would think the same way! I do think im bisexual to some extent but im just unsure This is something that creeps into my head alot Any advice or opinions would be welcome
Hi, I'm in the same situation where, the idea of having sex with a guy is just weird. Doesn't make any sense, but sex with a girl sounds great. So maybe you were always into girls and now you've just gotten comfortable enough that you're ready to expand on that.
I hate labels and such, but being "lesbian" is far, far more than purely having sex with other girls/women. I know a couple of str8 women who do that: it's easy. They don't even call themselves bi. Being lesbian is far more about how you feel emotionally about women: to put it simply, lesbians fall in love with other women: they want to live, share, cry, cheer, with them. Please consider this; it's far more than just sex.
Cad086? What is it like for you when your with a guy? Compared to with a girl? Silk I am not intending to insult you, I but i went to an all girls school and got bullied like hell hence it takes me a good year to trust a girl with anything deeper than maby my fear of the dark .., I want to have these emotional bonds I really want to trust a girl enough to share everything with. though I enjoy the company of girls I just dont trust them becuase most of the girls ive ever met have bitched or backstabbed or just lied to hurt me, in comparision to dudes who are just like meh about gossip hence i find it easier to trust them and then build bonds Its not like I dont crave the emotional bonds I want sooo much to beable just to sort my fucking head out already and just open up to a girl tell her everything and share everything and I think if i could find a girl on the same wave length as me it could be perfect.Which is part of my problem as I feel I will ever meet a girl who would just accept me faults and all, but even if i really like a guy emotionally, theres no physical attraction I just can feel awkward and it feels forced and wrong if we try anything and i just feel upset and confused, even if i look at them and think they are cute like, plus im quite confused and upset becuase i was raised religious and this goes againt alot i was taught to belive and is soo hard for me to admit i even like girls at all but at the same time i feel im lying if i ignore the fact there is someting there. Also I came to this post for real genuine advice! I kinda feel like your just sortv'e assuming im on here for attention , but i havent a clue in hell what im feeling myself or what ive been feeling for a long time but i came here becuase I dont want to tell my family how i feel coz they wouldnt understand and i thought someone could relate and help me figure out my thoughts a bit ...when im with guys i could almost cry i mean literally i just feel like its hell i just feel hurt and hurt the people around me. I need to start being honest with myself but its hard when my whole life ive been taught its wrong and when i cant even just work out myself
