Potential fuck buddy. What should I do?

Tell her you have some blow. She'll be over there quicker than you can get the camera ready :cheers2:

 

Yeah, of course. Blow, money, cars, diamonds, Rolexes, Moet, bling.

Who wouldn't?

The problem with all this is, I didn't ask her to come. She suggested she would come out of her own volition. So, now she flakes, and I'm supposed to persuade her to come.

It's always the same passive-aggressive strategy to get me to chase them and stretch myself out in all different directions, bend myself backwards, and jump through a million hoops to appease them.

Good ol' bait and switch.

 

I always tell the hookers that I date, if I wanted to chase them, they would've never met me.

But that's probably too complicated for them to work out.

 

I would blow her off. A hooker with psychological problems and a stalker ex...she is just setting you up to be a punching bag. The ex will get locked up for a while, and she will be rid of him. You might even survive. Oh, she will be rid of you too if you are smart.

Remember, any time a hooker or junkie opens their mouth they want something, and are lying. You are just meat to them.

 

In contradistinction to regular women? lol.

 

:smilielol5:

 

It's kind of naive to trust a hooker no matter how much they express their "desire" for you. Likely their agenda will ultimately bring them more business, ie more money.

 

BITCH. lol

 

Should it not be she that is doing the blowing?? :biggrin:

 

i can't believe you're even considering not sleeping with her, it's not like you'd marry her

 

That's what you and I think. But she seems to have different plans...just because she says fuck buddy, doesn't mean she wants fuck buddy.

And that's pretty obvious by the way she deferred to me the obligation to chase her down by not returning my last phone call, and not picking up on two occasions when we had something planned.

I've been down that road quite a few times. I was born yesterday, but I kept awake all night.

 

Maybe she sensed the conditions, and on second thought decided it's best if she just have you pay her.

 

Personally, I'd run... You had that shit for free and she's got too many probs.