while it is possible to be skinny or in the extreme this has nothing to do with the diff between a girl and a "real" woman.....
I have been naturally petite my whole life so I totally get everything you're saying. I always see things like "oh I like my women curvy who wants a twig?" and everyone praises them but if someone said "I only like skinny girls" they be ridiculed. I understand that bigger women have to deal with the media and everything thats full of skinny women but still.. I find it insulting when someone tells me I need to eat more or that i'm too skinny. Sorry I can't help it. Sure everyone has their preferences when it comes to partners or what is "hot or not" and they have the right to share that. But they shouldn't put down others in the process, big or small.