Did you ever feel desperate for sex?

Well, I finally got a few helpings of very hot sex and that has done me a world of good. The fact that when I get good sex I feel immediately better makes me really think that the only problem that disturbs me is the sexual one.

 

Cool. Who was the lucky guy?

 

Sex is like air. Doesn't really mean much until you're not getting any.

 

Husband has been locked up for 3 years so yeah DESPERATE for march 7th of 2014

 

I had a six year dry spell with my ex before divorce. Since divorce and with my current man I am making up for lost time and get very high quality off the charts great sex most nights!! I feel I deserve it after all those years living like a nun.....

 

If you are married and your husband doesn't have enough sex with you, you should talk with him about that.
Since the problem is not in you maybe it is him you should worry about.

 

Need a second husband?

I'm not jealous! i'll love you too!

And i promise to hug, caress, massage, lick, suck, finger, fuck and whatever you can imagine everytime you need it!

Enjoy!

I hope my wife was like you =)

 

May i ask... is your husband bored.... of life... has he any hobby? does he practice any sport? Does he have any life beyond your life as a couple?

If not... then just encourage him to do it... to look for a life out of your couple world...

Do you have kids? kids suck a lot of enery and sometimes just more than you can bear!

Maybe he's having a depression and he don't even knows it? Talk with him, is he bored? does he have energy to do new things? does anything motivate him? If he doesn't want to talk, just suggest you both should visit a couple therapist.

My wife has had a very long depression, and i didn't notice it and i felt fustrated all day because she never reactaed, and at the end it was a phisiological problem! I 've been desperate for sex for some years.. and i've never cheated her! Now she practice a lot of sports, she feels better about herself, but still not able to take the control of her life and the thrust an trust to step out of her mental prison!

Luckily you seem to be the one with high energy, I suggest you to also improve your life by directing part of your energy to some kind of sport or activity outside of your couple world! That will bring you endorphines and peace of spirit, and not beeing so pressy on you husband! Also that may light an spark on him to do also more things on his own!

I hope you both can be fully happy!

Enjoy!

 

Hi vivaCancun,

we both have very interesting lives, full of many wonderful things. We have no children and never wanted to have them, so, no drama there. We also have no real life problems that would cause stress. Sometimes a small set back, but never anything grave. Physically, my husband is very, very fit and sportive.

The only real negative is the fact sexually we're very different. There are only two things that get him ticking sexually: getting oral and fucking me doggy style. And that isn't enough to make me sexually happy. That's all. There is nothing I can do to change anything about his preferences. It's just the way he is. I do all the things people tell women to do in these situations, like the sexy lingerie, pole dancing, sexting, talking to him, etc. Even with other women, that's all he wants.

 

I don't cheat, eugene29. We have sex with other people, but it was agreed between us before the deed.

 

So your husband has sex with others, but not you? (Apart from blowjobs.)

 

No, we both have sex with strangers. Mostly in lifestyle clubs, but also in other settings.

 

I think she was asking if your husband has sex with others, but he won't with you.

 

Oh, sorry. I'm not English speaking and I have problems to understand the meaning of English phrases, sometimes. My apologies.

Mostly, it is really me giving oral to him. Sometimes, he fucks me doggy till he cums. That's the kind of sex that happens between the two of us 99% of the time. When he's with other women, he's a bit more generous, but not by much. I don't mind when he does more to strangers, because I understand why he's doing that. He knows other women would find his ways strange.

 

Really? You seem to have a pretty good command of the English language in your posts. I suspect it is kind of tough to keep the story line straight a lot of the time, though.

 

Thank you for the compliment. Most times, even English speaking people can't tell I'm not a native when they read me. When we're chatting, that's obvious, because of my strong accent. Be it written or spoken language, my main problems are with the use of prepositions and prepositional/phrasal verbs. Another problem is the cultural one. I've never lived in an English speaking country, so, I only know the culture through books, movies and TV shows, but that is always delayed when compared to the language that is really spoken.

Now, the second part of your post, you talk about keeping a story line. I may have misunderstood that, and if this is the case, I apologize to you. But if I understood it well, you're implying I need to keep a story line here. If that is so, you're calling me a liar. You have no grounds to accuse me and when you accuse somebody, if you have no proof of what you're saying, that's called calumny. Again, if that's the case, you and I have different views on what anonymity means. I don't see it as an excuse to behave less honorably, with less courtesy, with less regard for a fellow human being. Slander says a lot about their source.

Again, if this is me misunderstanding your phrase, I apologize. But it really reads like a malicious, completely gratuitous and unnecessary comment.

 

Hmm. I stand by the post, and will let it speak for itself.

 

Feel desparate for sex - yes, thats why we masturbate when we have the urge for sex or have no one to have it with. I do it for enjoyment & use sex toys to make it more pleasurable or to experiment with various items to enhance the amount & pressure that cum squirts out at. Oneday recently while laying on my bed , I had a tighter fitting penis ring fitted at the base & the cum squirted onto my face - that was the first time that had ever happened. The tighter the fit of the ring, the smaller in diameter size the urethra becomes at the base & the cum has a smaller diameter to pass thru & the more pressure it seems to squirt out at & goes further than normal.

 

I've had nearly 40 years of it. Would you like to register as a bonafinde member?

 

3 days? Oh, gee whiz... Wait till you start counting the years.....:bigcry:

Maybe... What we need to do.....
Those of us that feel deprived need to get together and resolve the situation...:sultan: