Thanks. Ive heard that the girls at massage shops are real girls....well so far so good lol. Its more the gogobars and streets where the lady boys are.
I got an idea for you: do nothing. The vast majority of these women are being exploited and unable to leave.
I know some of you are against this sort of thing and I was too before I went to thailand. But being their is different when you're single and its so cheap. I dp feel sorry for them but at the end of the day they need to make money. Nobody is putting a gun to their head, its simply about money. These girls are massage girls, not hookers that are controlled by a pimp. I respectfully asked an important question so I can be safer and would appreciate some help.
I've been to Thailand. No one is putting a gun to their head? Sometimes that is exactly what happens. Just trying to make money? Their pimps are making money, not them. All you're doing is taking advantage of what is, for them, their slavery. Be a fucking man and at least acknowledge what you're doing.
I hope you're just being facetious about that. Or maybe you're deluding yourself into believing that's really true to make yourself feel better. Maybe you'll find this enlightening.
And btw, you better check your sex worker's ID if you're from the U.S. Sex tourism involving a minor in another country is a federal crime in this country, punishable by up to 30 years in prison.
Fine then don't help me. You dont know me at all so stop judging. Do you know how caring I am and how respectful I am to even these girls? I almost cried for one of them. They are put in a terrible position to be born in such a poor country. I'm just a guy who has natural urges like the next guy. The girls dont like their job but they do want my money. I'm not harming anyone and by not having sex with them, what is that going to achieve? Is that going to fix their situation? No it's not.
You're not harming anyone? You're perpetuating their sexual slavery, dude. You want help? I'm helping you by pointing out a way to be a better man.
Am I taking advantage of their struggle? In way yes you're right. But both adults come to a mutual agreement nobody is being taken advantage of in a deceiving way. It makes ZERO difference whether I have sex with them or not and It's not my job to fix their lives. I gave them money and even one of them some extra cash for nothing, because I do care about them. I do feel bad for their situation but I don't feel like an evil person for doing it. I'm sorry but I don't. and if you want to judge me on one thing I do, then go ahead but I know Im a very good person thankyou very much.
The problem that you're trying so hard to ignore is that they, unlike you, don't have a choice. I'm not saying their lack of money takes their choice, I'm saying their pimp/handler takes away their choice. They couldn't say no to you, or stop working, even if they wanted to. Again, they are being exploited; they are being made slaves. You are taking advantage of that. Do you think the money you pay them, including your oh so generous tip, actually stays with them? Are you that naive?
I think you need to do some more research, not all places are like you describe. Ive spoken with a couple of them actually. They get to take breaks, go back home and one has even left it for good. They are not forced to do it by a pimp, they are massage girls and can only do massages if they want to. Some places even don't allow sexual intercourse.
Like they'd tell you otherwise? I mean, if they flat out told you they were basically slaves, would you still use them? I've no problem with legit, no sex massage parlors. But we're not talking about those, are we? We are talking about the ones you are interested in; the ones where they will fuck you.
This whole thread was about finding a way so I dont fuck them. Prob doesmt make much difference. I can understand where you're coming from.
Netflix has "Whore's Glory" on instant right now, and it is a great view into three non US prostitution situations.