good advices very welcome

Have u ever felt like ur life does not make any sense and seriously started thinking why do i live....

I have those kind of thoughts in my head for a week now and its really tiring. i could just labeled myself as another depressing person , but than i remember i dont sympthoms of depression at all... I still smile most time, find things pretty, laugh at funny jokes, enjoy nice days hanging out with friends,diong school, etc..

But when I'm alone and I go inside myself I can not find peace. I can not fall asleep milion different things start crossing my mind and its crazy...i use to meditate every day and i enjoyed taking time for myself and chill ,make clear what my life is about, but now im afraid to close my eyes.

i love life and its not that i was ever thinking to end it I just i started thinking about it waaaaay toomuch..
and oh yes Im worried about the fututre. The so called happy life everybody i know is wishing to have-having ur own family, being married, having a job , house...this sounds like preason to me:/ HOW can you enjoy going to the same f office every day,dealing with stupid bosses, coming home cooking for little ungreatful teenagers, cleaning the husbands mess... OK excuse me, this is how i feel bout that if u love those people u would probably do anything for them. love can save us byeeace:

 

y u no funny i dont have any

 

Just get some, it's easy

I've been in your position many times, and I'm sure most other people on here have too.

I wish you the best of luck.

 

Idiot......



Cheers Glen.

 

Can't say I disagree :2thumbsup:

I almost hate myself for posting that.

 

no , just dont post trash. and hate and this weird humor that is going on here. thankyou<3

 

WOT......



Cheers Glen.

 

Oh boohoo.
Just be glad you are healthy and don't live in poverty. Seriously.
Stop overthinking and be useful somehow.
If you don't know why you live, live to service and help others.
Sapienti sat.

 

thankyou

 

That is normal. At least to me.
You need to find your inner passion, it could be anything. But once you find it, I think that life will make sense for you...It could be long time till you find your inner passion though, so start as early as possible. And don't look behind or at anyone standing on the sideways telling you to stop.

 

thank you

 

This too shall pass. It's because you're 19.

 

I would like to suggest that you contact help lines and talk to someone who deals with youth depression.

We all have our moments of feeling down or overwhelmed but if it continues for any period of time it can become harmful to also your physical well being.

Please take the time for yourself to get some outside help and I hope that you start to feel more positive about life soon.

 

Hello

First of all my dear please remember thoughts do not define us. Let the negative thoughts flow and focus to positive vibes. Is essential for us to see both sides of life. We also experience the same frustrations with you about society. How fucked up is it through all history debates on power, money, demanding, greed all of us are part of life. If they weren’t who would appreciate the good ones. This is not the place we belong to my sister. We belong in eternal lands... Our home nature filled with art poetry singing dancing creating LOVE. When you alone is what we all need my dear to be ALONE. Is perfect just enjoying your special moment with yourself. Try to focus on positive thoughts, try to reflect your thoughts on arts here other people universe. Never keep that smile go because it can create wonders. No need to label yourself you are what you are your every moment is precious. You already found the answer my dear LOVE CAN AND WILL SAVE US! Just never lose hope. And the dude putting the ACID picture you are idiot and didn’t understand what acid truly is... seeking falsehoods with lucy!

 

It was very clearly a troll.

 

You just need to let it go. If you don't know why you are alive its because you haven't found your reason yet.

 

thank you so much!

 

oh so ur saying there is a reason..nicee

 

Yes, I think almost everyone feels like this at some point in their life. I hope you find that just as comforting as me :biggrin: After all, if only half of those people get rid of that feeling doesn't that seem they have found their reason? I think there are many reaons to find how to live and enjoy life though, even for one person. But yes, then it still can be shit if you can not find some kind of occupation/profession or general direction you wish to go in. I know since I stop every once in awhile from looking for such a direction and just do my unproductive thing if I can. Guess what, that can be just as satisfactory. As long as you don't rile yourself up at least because you think you need stuff like a career or have a path to develop.
At least we are in a time where we don't have to do stuff like you talked about in the first post of this thread, like we can work just to do the stuff you dig in your free time, we don't have to get married and get kids like would be expected from every normal person not so long ago at all. We can do whatever we like with our lifes and in that alone I can often find enough 'reason' to enjoy life. But yeah, I think I as well will be one of those persons that looks for some fullfillment or a certain satisfactory profession or goal or whatever we can name it. But I really like living in the moment as well and often feel like we don't need to do shit, especially when you do not add to anything shitty and don't want to add to shitty things. In the end we don't need much at all. Or perhaps I should just talk for myself here