Snooped and found something I shouldn't have...

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by basedprncss, Mar 8, 2013.

  1. rollingalong

    rollingalong Banned

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    i pop mine into friends laptops when they are in the washroom and sometimes their phones too

    why?...where do you use yours?:)
     
  2. calgirl

    calgirl Senior Member

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    There are many many things we don't know about a person. Even if we've been around them for a very long time. Our minds are sophisticated, capable of diverse interests, and infinitely changing. And as importantly, we are entitled to privacy despite the closeness to someone. So with that perspective, and the benign nature of the photos, I would let it go. Chalk it up to awareness, and make no conclusion or judgement. Let a person have an element of mystery. As one myself that suffers from jealousies, these are the things I constantly remind myself of.
     
  3. deleted

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    I wonder why stupid ass dont hide the folders.. geez.
     
  4. GLENGLEN

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    Perhaps It's Because He Feels He Has Nothing To Hide, For Her To Know

    That They Are Ex's, He Must Have Told Her About Them, So, Whats

    Wrong With Keeping In Touch With An Ex.??? I Have Always Thought

    That After The Breakup, It Was A Mark Of Maturity, To Part Company

    On Friendly Terms...:)



    Cheers Glen.
     
  5. rollingalong

    rollingalong Banned

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    no glen...pretty sure you have to hate the ex'''its still ok to have sex with them...but spiteful angry sex:)

    its the portability of it all...the act of collecting it on his special little usb..how many more usb's lurk in the dudes life

    she can only know by searching everything this instant....she should be combing through his stuff like a momma looks for lice in her kids hair after the letter come homes from the school....look for floppy discs...fuckin perverts probably been doin this since he was a kid

    ya....she should sherlock holmes his ass and investigate this matter right now...question his family...his siblings...exes...everyone

    nothing hotter than a crazy assed jealous babe slightly drunk and maybe wearing a thong:)

    good luck honey:)
     
  6. RainyDayHype

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    I think it's creepy and gross. I think you should ask him about it, ask for an explanation. That's disrespectful to you and the other women, but especially to you.
     
  7. rollingalong

    rollingalong Banned

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    i think its grounds for instant dismissal....get the fuck out...delete all pics first
     
  8. GLENGLEN

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    BULLSHIT, I See This As Being Nothing More Than The Modern Day

    Equivilant Of The Address Book, And Photo Album, I Have A Big Addy

    Book Going Back Over 40 Years, And There Is Nothing In There I

    Would Wish To Hide From A Potential Lover...:).



    Cheers Glen.
     
  9. Irminsul

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    I've started taking sneaky photos of girls I'm making out with. >.>
     
  10. rollingalong

    rollingalong Banned

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    glen..you know i'm right and i demand you admit it

    they are living together...so where the hell is johnny taking his lil usb of filth?...or exes as i like to call them...and why arent his buddies on there?...i bet he has multiple facebook and plenty of fish accounts too
     
  11. GLENGLEN

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    Who Says He's Taking Them Anywhere.??? He Has Simply Chosen To

    Store Them All In That Format, And There Is No "Filth" In There, Just

    Pics He Appears To Have Downloaded Off Facebook.

    I Love To Wander Through My Photo Album And View My Ex's, And

    Sometimes Wander Through My Big Addy Book And Wonder What These

    People Are Doing Now...:).

    I Am Beginning To Think You Have A Suspicious And Evil Mind, And I

    Thank The Heaven's Above That I'm Not Dating You...[​IMG].



    Cheers Glen.
     
  12. Meliai

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    She did say they were all titled something perverted...do you title people in your address book by perverted names? also, the downloading from facebook factor is kind of weird. When I want to see facebook pictures of my friends I log onto facebook. If I thought a picture was really cute and I wanted a physical copy I can see myself saving it to print later but I wouldn't title or caption it "Dirty Slut Takes it in the Butt"
     
  13. rollingalong

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    first...you'd be lucky to have me...

    but as you know we can never be together...

    me with my socks and you with your bare feet..it would never work

    and glen..''the kids'' arent doing that today at all...only the creepy two faced ones that need to access that shit when their ol lady...or partner is away doing errands for you know who...creepy jimmy on his girlfriends laptop downloading facebook shots of his exes and then even going through the trouble of labelling each and every one and then ouch...special file for slutty cindy magee

    yuck

    i'm a nice guy..i dont do that creepy shit and dudes that do shouldnt get the nice girls...or the nice boys
     
  14. Irminsul

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    What are the titles of the pics? Just curious.
     
  15. GLENGLEN

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    Mmmmmmmm...[​IMG].???



    Cheers Glen.
     
  16. monkjr

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    Oh yeah I forgot to consider this too! But I have a hypothesis of why he has done this....he's sharing these photos and conquests online in some blog or something...

    Yeah OP should at least investigate him ASAP professionally, and then decide upon further evidence if you are in a dangerous situation or not. She could also directly text that other girl her gf was texting, whom we assume to be his ex. (fact: we don't know who he's texting on the other end, this is an assumption)

    I reverse my opinion from my previous post in this thread, especially since he's been labeling the pics with dirty messages. The guys I know who keep some pics around of their ex's don't label them in nasty ways. It's just a photo collection with names, and subnotes about where they met and why they broke up.
     
  17. basedprncss

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    I think he has it on an external drive simply for the reason of not having anyone to find them. After all we share a computer and before we met I think his family would use his computers sometimes. Either way, I've decided to see this collection as some harmless fetish like a previous poster had mentioned. I haven't talked about it with my bf yet but when I do I'm not going to focus so much on the things I've found, but more so on our relationship and its commitment level.
     
  18. roamy

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    loose him!
     
  19. monkjr

    monkjr Senior Member

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    Okay then, it's your choice. Might I suggest that you tell a girlfriend to be on call for some moral support and to check in on you, ya know just in case there's a evidence trail in the event that you find yourself in deep trouble? (like him going psycho on you)
     
  20. basedprncss

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    for sure, ive definitely talked to my best friend about it. she also thinks its weird and unusual but shes supportive at least.
     

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