My wife and I are visiting Las Vegas for our honeymoon in a few months.We have actually been married for two years now, taking a late honeymoon due to our jobs. I'm 23 and she's 21, a very hot 21 year old at that. Well obviously we are very sexual and love having a good time. In our hometown we love to have sex in public places, both of us love the risks of getting caught. When out of town we love to have her dress real hot, short dresses and heels, etc. We plan on doing some partying and clubbing while in Vegas. However I'm thinking of surprising her with a trip to a Swingers Club there. Just pull up and have her see what it is. We have never talked about anything like this before so I'm not sure about it. I'm not trying to hook up with anyone at all, just wanting to have a good time. Maybe just find a room and the two of us have lots of fun. What do you all think about this? I would like someone else's opinion on it before I just surprise my wife with a trip to a swingers club lol. Thanks
I think you'd make a good writer for a cheesy porno. And unless you guys have specifically talked about swinging/swapping, I don't know that "surprising" her with it is such a good idea.
My opinion is you don't just surprise someone with the swinger lifestyle if you have never even talked about it with them before! Lots of communication is the key to making this lifestyle work.
We have talked about it a little. More like if we ever did end of doing it, then it wouldn't be a frequent thing. But it was just a 3 minute conversation. Yeah I understand what you mean. Like I said I don't plan on hooking up with anyone, but your still right. I should say something to her first about what she thinks of going.
If you're in your twenties, chances are you'll both be disappointed going to a swingers club. There are exceptions, but most people going to these places are at least 20 years older than you and your wife. I like it, but I'm 43 myself.