Hey girls. I am 16 years old and I live in Israel. I use Google translate, so I'm sorry if I wrote something incorrectly. So, I'm in love with my counselor at school, her age is 31. It's just torture to be in love with someone older. It's hopeless, it blows your head with fantasies that can never be realized. For a year and a half that I love her. During the years she and I would meet for talks at school, I'd tell her about the day - my day and the things I'm going through, and she was always listening to me and advise me. Easy to fall in love with a person so charming. Following the articles I read about the relationship between teachers and students, I nurture hope that I can maintain this relationship. I see it happen quite a few countries such as the United States, Canada and English. So I turned to you, because you live in a country where a relationship between student and teacher is not something new. Do you identify with my problem? You also fall in love with a person out of you than an adult? Please write to me in good English so I can translate it properly. Thank you.
not making fun of you or anything. it is very normal for a student to develop feelings with their counselors or teachers due to the close proximity and intimacy that they share. even though it does happen, the chances of it happening are very very slim. i'm sure not everyone means to ignore your question (mine was semi ignored as well). I can also identify with the problem that you are facing and i am telling you from experience, that it is possible to keep your relationship, but usually it will fade after you leave or you will find someone else. I'm currently in love with a woman nearly double my age.
It's always super though with teachers. I had such a huge crush on a teacher through all my 4 years of high school. But I know it's just a fantasy so I didn't let it get to me. It may be the same for you, maybe not.
Keep it a secret until the last day of your highschool, then send her an email or something to see if she would reply. Remember just because you have a crush on someone it doesn't mean the other person has as well.
If she is truly a very good teacher she will likely not engage in a realationship with you as a student, no matter how wonderful she thinks you are. I would say enjoy the hell out of the fantasy, think about all the fun and wonderful things you can explore together, and maybe one day find a mature woman and tell her all about your teacher and play it out a little...that way you won't jeapardize your teacher's career and you can still enjoy all the pleasure of your naughty secret fantasies.
