Why women don't have orgasms every time they have sex

only 30% of women orgasm from penis in vagina sex.

 

cause they dont eat enough pineapple..

 

Nailed it. Though I would replace "most" men with "many". I think in general, as men get older they realize when it comes to sex, it's not all about "me".

Also, as someone mentioned they (younger men in particular) are pretty much occupied with not cumming to soon.

 

I'm a woman that also doesn't need to have an orgasm to enjoy sex. Some of the best sex I have had is where I didn't cum. I enjoy and savor every moment of being touched, licked and kissed.

Frankly, my orgasms are short anyway. Men need to realize that women aren't exactly like them in bed. Men get pain if their erection is still there, but the world won't end if a woman doesn't have an orgasm.

 

Same. I didn't start enjoying vaginal penetration until my mid-20's. It's because the guys I was with in college didn't know how to properly warm me up. I also was uneducated, and would follow their advice of "Just take the pain. It will go away. Your vagina just needs loosening up."

The pain never went away when having sex with my boyfriend in college. If only he knew proper foreplay techniques, the pain wouldn't have been there. Then, I bought a vibrator and found out that my body needed a certain amount of foreplay to relax when being penetrated.



In my late 20's, I met a man that knew how to finger me just right where I could cum before having sex....

 

Just touching in different areas without having an orgasm, is a good way to pleasure each other & you may find certain sensitive areas that you'd never discovered before.

 

Hmmm... My wife cums every time! I guess I'm lucky she is such a good cummer... She generally comes 2 to 3 times (sometimes 4 or more) before I cum.

Usually, it's during her 3/4 time when he pussy convulses and grips my dick and squirts a little that sends me over the edge. Ahhhh Good times LOL..

Although, been a while, and looking like could be even more of a while before I get any in the sack again

 

Spontaneously bring her a rose home and don't expect anything to come from it.

 

I do that sort of stuff once in a while

Although I did do chocolate once, that was a mistake... Who knew chocolate was effectively a sex killer....

And it's going to be a while regardless.... She has some recovery time from a C-Section.

Yeah, I sound like a selfish prick... I guess I kinda am... I don't feel good about that actually....

 

Usually the positions don't stimulate a womans clitoris enough unless modified. Try spooning sex or modifying doggy or missionary so more balls or belly hit her clit.

 

I nearly broke up with my boyfriend because of situation in the bed .. I really could not get orgasm .. but i found great and natural product i was a bit skeptical but i tried and really after 2-3 weeks our relationship become much more fresh .. have you ever tried this product :sunny: ? www.alura-eu.co.uk ?

Girls everything is going to be fine!

 

I'm glad I don't have that problem....if I'm really into the guy, I will come about as soon as he puts it in...and over and over. It is mental/emotional mostly.

 

I think too much emphasis is put into the males not giving enough pleasure I mean you have to make it work too, you've also got an obligation to satisfy yourself and if you're not helping that then the end product is bad sex, you can't just blame the male? Maybe it's because I'm gay and women know that we have to work each other for the best stimulation and pleasure. I know I need to get into desired positions and work with a lover.

 

^^^Yes.

you have to have synergy

 

Ummm, yeah they don't, but they can and they should and they do, with me!