Too old for young chicks?

I'm in my mid thirties and pretty young and healthy looking for that age.

I've no problems with this myself but just wondering what people think when I say I prefer the girls I date to be around 21-23.

On one level they haven't reached that stage where its all mortgage, career and babies. I lead a simple way of life and the 21-23 age suits me, and I suit them.

Then again, I just love fucking girls that age. If it were a one night stand, and this happens rarely I'd have no problems with screwing 18 19 year old chick. They so fucking hot.

So either I haven't matured - likely lol - or that its just liking young hot girls at an age where in all honesty, magazines plaster their naked bodies over their pages anyway.

Thoughts?

(young chicks, I don't call girls that, but 'young girls' sounds pedo.)

 

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I think the culture's feminine beauty standard is epitomized by women in their late teens/early twenties. Which as far as what constitutes 'fair game', if we look at it from a global or historical perspective, is still quite conservative (twelve year old brides, anyone?).

So no, there's nothing particularly unusual or wrong about your sexual preference. Now depending on who you ask, most women will tell you you're a man-child, pseudo-pedo, misogynist pig and whatnot. But that's to be expected. Same with men trying to lay some guilt trip on you - they're just a-hating because they just don't have that kind of game themselves.

I'm in the same age category as you. Though I'm in a steady relationship now, I've noticed it's actually easier for me to chat up young women now than it was when I was that age. Over time, you (hopefully) get more at ease with yourself, more sophisticated and interesting as a person - not to mention 9 out of 10 women have a fascination with older men, so as long as you're somewhat presentable, this is your time to thrive, bro.

 

Mate 18+ is generally accepted as an age to give consent (I more or less agree with this) so if these young women want to fuck you and you want to fuck them I say more power to you.

 

The whole idea that young chicks go after older guys is lost on me. I haven't really experienced that. However, it may very well be that I'm the one who can't stand them.

It's hard to know which way the rejection departs from.

 

Actually on that note you even said you have no problem with having sex with younger women so why are you even opening this thread at all? Just curious about what other people think? I'll save you the trouble!

Some people will think it's sick and that you could almost think you would be their dad, others will think you're a legend and most won't really give a fuck . So all in all who really cares what anyone else thinks.

 

If she's old enough, then you're not too old - I know when I was younger, all I wanted was older guys. Nowadays age is just a number, but I digress.

 

My husband is 48 and I'm 24- and he's the most wonderful, handsome, gorgeous, kind, loving, intelligent man I've ever met. Don't lose hope <3

 

I bet your mom is proud of you.

 

I'm not sure if that's meant to be sarcastic or not.... I don't have much a relationship with my mom, last I checked she was happy I found someone.

 

i don't really think it's the norm. most younger girls want nothing to do with older guys. there's just a certain small percentage that refuses to date within their own age range for whatever reason.


of course, OP might as well go after that small percentage of young girls that want old guys, because they are probably still a larger percentage than girls OP's age who aren't already married.

 

When I was younger it seemed like all the hot chicks dated older guys. The older guys seemed to have their shit together, financial stability and maturity. Now that I'm older I get way more hot young girls than I did in my younger years. But it really depends on the guy and girl, if you click with someone you click with someone, age isn't really an issue until you get older older like 50+, at that age your window changes to women 30+ imo.

 

It might mean you're immature compared to other guys your age but who cares? Maturity is an illusion anyways, based on how society defines being a grown up.

Let's face it, young chicks are fun. This is coming from a 28 year old, so I'm two years away from 30 . Not exactly a young chick anymore..and girls my age and older can be really boring and serious. They also have more to offer in terms of low drama, more wisdom, blah blah..but if you're just looking for someone to have uncomplicated fun with then do your thang dude.

I've noticed older men sometimes have a bad habit of falling in love with younger women when they date, just from personal experience and watching others around me. It's kind of ironic because men get involved with younger women to avoid complication and to have some fun, they end up having so much fun real feelings develop, and they end up complicating things.

 

I think guys tend to be less mature than women of the same age. Which is why I tend to see girls dating guys that are older than them. It's odd to see a 25 yr old women with an 18 year old guy, most women prefer "men" from what I've seen.

 

well, that's the excuse women usually give for dating much older guys. which is kind of funny, since at least in my experience it's usually the less mature women who go for the oldies.

 

I dont see it as an excuse, but more of a reason. If you compare a typical 21 yr old girl to a a 21 yr old guy, the guys still act like they're in high school. I almost always see a girl with an older guy even if its just a year or two.

 

I am 41 and the woman I am living with is 28! Age had nothing to do with why we got together. We were simply just very compatible and still are. I already have kids and she does not want any of her own so it works well for us.

 

eh, i wouldn't go so far as to say they act like they're in high school. they do seem immature, but that's because we're substantially older than them so to our eyes, they are immature. high school kids seem even more immature than them though.

but then, the typical 21 year old girl generally acts just as high schooly as the typical 21 year old guy.

you're right, a year or two age difference is pretty common. but then, after high school a year or two difference is pretty negligible as far as maturity goes anyway. i'm not really sure why this age divide tends to happen, but i'm inclined to say it's because that's what people have been doing forever and it has become a social norm, more than anything else.

 

I'm sure the sex with a young lady is always going to be amazing but once that over I just couldn't stand having to hang out with someone that young all the time.
And having to go out partying all the time. No Thank you I'm just getting to old for that.
good luck