Girls, is your current Husband/boyfriend your best ever lover. And.......

maybe you can send them to dark sugar, that would be good enough for me

 

Yeah I bet. I say Dark Sugar should be sending me some nude pics .

 

Sounds like you run a good tight but not uptight ship. I give you props. But I also want to point out that even at 13 nowadays some of those conversations are still too late.

I started asking where babies came from when I was in kindergarten, and I didn't get the sex talk, but the concept of cells as the smallest living thing was told to me and that there were different types of cells, men had sperm and women had eggs, and that together they made a baby in the woman's tummy.

Funnily enough the first thing that hit my brain then, was "Wait eggs? Eggs = food from a hen. Why do they share the same name of 'egg' they're obviously different otherwise I'd see human women laying eggs?"


I didn't ask the complementary question about how the sperm and the egg meet until I was about 8 or 9.

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Also when I took a psychology class about 5 years ago, when we talked about psycho-social sexual development, statistical studies we looked at and talked about in class said that as recently as 2003, 5% (so like not a super large number out of the millions of kids we have in the USA, but still) of all 10 year olds have had sexual intercourse with a close-in-age peer out of curiousity, so there was no cohersion into that scenario it all happened out of natural curiousity.

 

I did really like the girlfriends I had, but I never really liked the sex I had with any of them. I doubt that they liked it either. I knew what to do, but somehow I could not do it. I felt awkward and uncomfortable and clumsy and it would always be over real quick. I found it embarrassing if I'm honest. I dont think they helped me either. You might think it was because I did not have much experience, but I had none with guys when I got with my bf, but right away it felt right, I was comfortable and confident and felt that I just knew what to do by instinct. Josh was great with me as well, which really helps. I just think that with girls, I had to be the man, I had to take the lead with them because they would not, and I was just shit at it! I am100 % submissive to my bf, and I am really good at that. I have no interest in being a top, thats for sure. Sex with Josh is awesome. The actual psychical sensation of gay sex as a bottom is a thousand times better for me than straight sex with a girl!

I am still attracted to girls, but have no desire to have sex with them. It is quite complex though. I think my sexuality is able to move about. I am attracted to a broader range of girls, than guys. I am only attracted to a certain type of guy, but I'm more attracted to that type than any girl, if that makes sense. I would say I'm bi, but if someone calls me gay, I have no problem with it, but if someone called me straight I would have. I have always known I liked both, even when I was very young I knew. I first felt attracted to Josh when I was 11-12. When I started watching porn, I would watch both gay and straight. I would have no interest in the guy while watching straight porn, only in the girl. While watching gay porn, I would imagine I was the bottom. I prefered gay..... I do not worry about my sexuality now though, I just go with it. When I was younger, I worried loads.

 

I came out to my Mum and my sister not long after I got with Josh. I was 16. I sweated over it for the longest time. My Mum knew, she said that both my Dad and her had talked about the possibility of me being gay years ago. She said she was shocked when I got with my first girlfriend. My Mum is the coolest, and she has no problems with me being with Josh. My sister also knew about me being gay, and she knew I was with Josh before I told her. She says she is glad that it is him. All that worry for nothing....... Everyone knows about us, and everyone is cool with it. Nearly everyone anyway!

 

Times have changed becoming less judgemental.

 

It sounds like you are more suited to gay sex and that your role as a bottom in your relationship with your bf comes naturally to you, which is great. It also seems that the girls you were with were not assertive sexually, and you were not either, that was never going to work.

 

Thats interesting, did you have sexual feelings for him at that age? Its great that you are comfortable with your sexuality now.

 

Is your Dad also cool with it? I think it makes perfect sense that your Mom knew, she may have known before you did! Moms have a sixth sense about their kids I think. It's a shame you had so much worry about it, but great that everyone now knows, and you dont get any shit from anyone about it.

 

Yeah, most people are cool, not everyone is, but most are. I think everyone is entitled to their view though. Some people think I am to young to be living with my boyfriend. My grandparents on my Dads side are not happy about it. It makes me sad, because since my Dad died we have been really close. I do my best to respect their views, but if its fine with my Mum and my Sister, and its fine with Josh and his parents, its fine with us.

 

I am very comfortable with the way things are. I love being his boyfriend, and we will never reverse the way things are. It really works for us. We have so much fun together.

My girlfriends dumped me, so I must have been doing things wrong. I tried, but it never seemed to work. I would try to do stuff, but they wouldn't give me any signs that they liked it, or tell me what and how to do it. No encouragement, and it really effected my confidence. I remember thinking, I'm going to do this to her, or that, but then not do it.

It upset me because girls would say I was cute, not in a good way, but in a way you would tell a little kid he was cute. A bit like you did Rachel lol......""Ahhhhhhh he's so cute."* It used to really get to me. It doesn't now. I guess it wasn't their fault, but that's the way it was. I remember when I told my last girlfriend about Josh and I, and she was like...."That explains a lot."* So I must have been really bad! Lol Thing is, even when I had a girlfriend, I would still think about having sex with guys, I never did, but I would think about it a lot. Now I'm with Josh, I don't think about doing it with anyone but him. We have it really good together.

 

Yes I did! My Mum says that it was so obvious that I had a huge crush on him when I was about 12. He would come to our place to hang out with my sister, and I always wanted to hang out as well, but my sis would never let me. My Mum says that I used to do everything I could to impress him, or get his attention, but it never worked. I remember that he would stick up for me though. After a while I just started crushing on someone else....

 

I think when your really worried about something you don't think straight about it. In hindsight, its obvious that my Mum would have known I was gay, she even once caught me kissing a friend of mine, but at the time Josh and I was really worried about what people would think. My Mum, Sister and I are very close, and I should have known better. I had nothing to worry about, they have been really amazing about it, and they both knew, but waited until I was ready to tell them because they didn't want to embarrass me.

 

Sorry biteen1. Lol Nothing wrong with being cute at your age though.

 

I guess not, and every girl wants a token gay friend!

 

Mmm, hmmmm and have you worked out the version from the girls Josh gets yet?

 

The version of what? Josh doesnt get any girls. He's gay.

 

My boyfriend is not has good has my ex in bed but i couldn't tell him that that though!

 

Why is your bf not as good Hayley?

 

funny, how a thread asking females with enough sexual history to discern whether their current man was the best they had ever had in bed was derailed by a 17 y.o. boy who is neither female, nor old enough to have enough experience to stake a claim to 'best ever'.

or before that was re-directed by a cuckold loudly proclaiming he was happy that her woman was fucking someone with a cock twice as big as him. Thank God, I'm a real man, if a woman of mine was fucking a cock twice as big as mine it would 15.5" of cock. Thank you God.

I think this thread would have been far more interesting if several women gave justifications why they were willing to stay in a relationship with a man if the sex was not al that great compared to some previous partners.

I really am curious about that, about the psyche that can can say:

"well, Bob is sweet and a nice guy and we have this nice house together and he is a good father but he has kind of a tiny little penis and he cums soooo quick! Sometimes after he gets off me, and I actually can be honest with myself I long for that one guy from years ago with a really big dick who used to fuck me hard until I was sore. Also, I sometimes miss those days in college when I sucked off 4 boys at a party or had a 3some with those two frat boys. Oh well, those days were nice and sometimes I get so horny thinking about it but I'm with Bob now, so I guess sex really doesn't matter anymore. Maybe that's why I never feel like giving him a blowjob, after all, I've sucked so many cocks already."

yeah, that would make this thread worth reading again.