Girls, is your current Husband/boyfriend your best ever lover. And.......

And I respect you as well . Respect has to be earned. You don't get it by jumping in a thread after 35 pages and immediately trying to attack people.

 

rachel, xxaru, enhancer......get a room

 

Dude, I saw one of your posts that was disliked by six (6) different people! Thats got to be a record for this forum.

I've got nothing against you, but your well off base on this thread. Until you stop acting like a petulant child, and grow up a bit, I will take the advise you offered above.

 

Fortunately, I don’t care about how many people click to like a post or not. Liking or disliking something doesn’t disprove facts. You and everyone else are entitled to their own opinion. But thus far not a single person has proven our argument to be wrong.

BTW, I appreciate the gesture Biteen. But FYI… you can’t give neg rep (or positive rep for that matter) when you’re already in the red .

 

Quit thinking there is power in numbers. That shit means nothing. There's probably 60 that do like the posts, and don't use the stupid feature.

To stay on topic....

By 17 I had been with about 4 men, and I didn't have a fucking clue what "best ever lover" could even begin to look like. But I wasn't offering myself to older men that liked under aged girls.

 

I've been with 3 girls and 1 guy! I know that is not a lot, no need to give me a hard time about it. What I can say is that I like having sex with my bf a hundred times more than with any of those girls. Just because I have not had sex with dozens of people doesn't mean that I don't know how good my bf makes me feel when we have sex. When you say I offer myself you make it sound cheap, its not. He makes it very special for me and we love each other.

I do not understand what you mean with the underage thing? We were not together, and never had sex while I was underage.

 

This and the 100+ thread have really made me think about these issues seriously.

Ultimately, what two adults decide to do sexually is up to them. if a brazen woman were to tell a multi-millionaire with a 3" penis that she only wanted his money and she would humor him by fucking or sucking him on occasion but when she was horny she would fuck the local college basketball team and he was ok with it, who are we to interefere?

I only have 2 issues remaining; one, our society does a horrible job letting teens know that abstinence is a good thing and teaching them how to resist pressures to become sexually active before they are ready. Talking about unwanted pregnancies, STDs, shame and heartbreak should not be limited to a semester of Health class but should be a continuous dialogue throughout High School and even into college. Allowing 17 & 18 year olds to go from living in their parents' houses to living in open dorms with no restrictions is just dumb. I remember my sophomore year in college there was a good looking member of the basketball team who lived on my floor. He fucked lots of girls. One night he threw a girl out in the hall naked and locked his door. There she was naked in the hall and several men stood there laughing at her until I brought her a blanket and took her to the RA. For that I got ostracized and had firecrackers shoved under my door. eventually I moved out.

the other thing is people should be honest with each other when it comes to sex. they should not lie about their past if asked and should not cheat. I know this sounds silly but it is the truth. Deception is bad and people should have the courage to be honest. Several of my wive's friends have confessed details to my wife about their sexual past which their husbands don't know about. My wife shared some of these stories with me (unsolicited). I hate the fact that I know secrets about women that their husbands don't. I think, what if that were me? I have asked my wife repeatedly if she has told her friends things she wouldn't want to tell me and she emphatically says that she hasn't. I feel like a woman should never tell a friend something she wouldn't tell her husband.

so, protect the kids and provide the proper information about the consequences of sex and promote a culture of honesty and discussion so that people don't cause heartbreak. otherwise, let grown ups do whatever they want to, it won't affect me either way.

 

I don't know about you guys but I had a very good balanced sex education that promoted abstinence education and also talked about condoms and other medical aspects about relationships and sex.

I hope you aren't promoting abstinence education fx20736, because that has proven not to work, not because abstinence isn't stressed enough, but because the kids/teens just aren't interested in it.

There are multiple statistical studies that show a link between how a person's parents feel about discussing sexual topics, with the onset of when their child begins their sex life. I read one scientific study that proved the the Catholic repressed rebel child sterotype right, in that statistically they lost their virginities 2 years earlier than the average. They attributed it to the fact that parents aren't EXPLAINING the topic of sex well to their children because it's uncomfortable and they have the added stress of the hypothetical scenario of their child going to hell if they have sex so because of that the conversation suffers, the kid goes through their normal hormone changes and they rebel.

 

Yes it has got way past ridiculious! When someone throws insults at you with nothing to back it you feel like you need to say something though. I think you can relate to that.

 

we have already started talking about sex with our 13 y.o. son. neither my wife nor I try and hide our naked bodies from our kids, if they see us naked coming out of the shower we don't make an issue of it. My wife and I plan to discuss birth control and many other issues. We also have started talking about alcohol, jobs in high school, driving and lots of other topics. we are a tightly knit family and I never pretend that things like sex, drugs and alcohol don't exist. We set expectations for our kids and let them know the consequences for failing to meet them.

 

I think your being a little unfair to him Calgirl. Talk about putting an ugly spin on something as sweet as the kids first love.

I noticed in one of his posts that he used the word "Mum" instead of "Mom." So I'm guessing that he is from the U.K, which would mean he is not under age in that country. Also, his boyfriend is only 22 for christsake, and someone he says he has known his whole life. He is not some disgusting old pervert grooming youngsters for sex. His parents allow him to live with his lover, and I'm sure they would not if they were not 100% certain about their Sons well being.

Have you read his posts in this thread? What comes across to me is how happy he is. Yes he is only 17, but kids are now sexually aware at a much younger age. He obviously loves the sex that his boyfriend gives him, and in the five odd posts that he has posted, he has told us he loves his boyfriend about ten times. Its cute! Yes?

 

Why did you not enjoy going with girls biteen? Are you still attracted to females? Have you always been attracted to both? How long ago did you come out to your parents? Do all your friends and family know about your relationship, and how have they reacted. You said that your bf was best buds with your sister! How does she feel about the two of you being together.

 

Yeah, just as I thought. You can’t produce my quote because I never said it. Don’t have shit to say now do you?

 

This is great

 

Oh snapp u just got owned by the sexy man

 

yes, but I'm not convinced that pic is him :mickey:

 

:-0 !!!!!!

 

It must be if not then who have I been ....... Booooooo damn catfish

 

:smilielol5:

well maybe he will post a pic of him with his name on a sign, you know a proof of life type of thing

 

Stop flirting with me Jo King. I'm not sending you any nude pics.