Does anal sex get easier?

I've took it in the ass once. It was amazing but difficult. Does the asshole loosen over time?

 

Yes & no. It doesn't loosen - if it did you would probably sufer from bowel incontinence. However, with experience you do get to learn how to relax, making penetration easier, as well as adopting positions that are best for you.

 

Exactly what in was going to write - saved me the time.


......... You don't want to be LOOSE!

 

It does get easier. You learn what works and what doesnt. It gets better!

 

Yes it does I know a girl who did it so much she was considering plastic surgery to retighten herself "back there".

 

mental and relaxtion make it easier

 

Yes, it does get easier. The more you want it, the easier it gets. Good sex starts in the mind first.

 

what? for real? how wide could she take?

how about just doing some kegels?

the only diff i've noticed is that an inexperienced ass stays tight without any intent from the owner, whereas someone who knows how to take a cock has enough to control to loosen up so it goes easier - no reason i couldnt remain tighter though on purpose (I kinda do that sometimes with less challenging boys).

 

for sure it get's easier

Simon :sunny:

 

I've had anal with my current lady (10 months) once at her request. I'm very wide and she was apprehensive, but we just took it slow and she loved it. She didn't come but said it felt amazing. She wants to make it more frequent.

I think it's a case of men not ramming it in as if it's a dollar coin in a parking meter.

 

My woman and I frequently enjoy anal. While she can rapidly dilate her anal canal now compared to when we began, she's still tight as ever. It's the best of both worlds.

 

I won't get into gory details but last I heard she was an amateur porn star.

 

Once you learn how to relax your sphincter muscles it gets easier.

 

Yes, it gets much easier! And since you thought it was amazing you are a step ahead. Mental relaxation is a huge factor, once you achieve that the physical relaxation is simple

 

One major tip is that when the penis first begins to penetrate the natural response is to tighten your muscles, as if trying to stop a bowel movement. You should focus your mind not only to overcoming this tightening, but to reverse it, as if you were trying to force a bowel motion. It may seem a bit contradictory, but the muscles that would normally be used to force material out can also be used to ease foreign material (i.e. the penis) in.

 

Love your posts! I must say that anal penetration is something that can be so fulfilling. You do have to focus your mind on the tightening. Once you can achieve this, it's awesome! I have some of my BEST orgasms through anal. The type of lube you use can also make a difference. Some people might have to experience with several before they find the perfect one. That's what we did. I started anal with my husband about 8 years ago and it just keeps getting better. Have anal quite often, and I'm not experiencing any issues whatsoever. I think a lot of it has to do with how you go about it also

 

If a chick is considering surgery to tighten her anus she either has a neuro-muscular syndrome (spinal nerve damage), or she has been taking traffic cones in her arse.

The only thing that stops women from successfully having anal sex is between their ears. If for some reason they really, genuinely, don't want it, they won't be having it.

 

it certainly does get better

 

I just did anal for the second time today. Actually we did it twice, once this morning and another time this afternoon. The first time he asked for it, the second time I initiated it.

It definitely gets better. You need to do it with someone who can warm you up and go reaaaaaaaally easy in the beginning.

Also, I would say we're not doing it full blown yet because I'm only comfortable with him putting it very slowly and pulling it out. Its not like he can jack hammer it or anything.

 

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We had a similar experience, and it keeps getting easier from there, so keep going. After several times, I could actually start thrusting myself in her ass. Not jack-hammering it, and not sure if I would want to do that anyway, because that couldn't be very healthy for her. The vagina is meant for doing that.