Girls, is your current Husband/boyfriend your best ever lover. And.......

First off, when you say "we," you mean yourself and the batshit crazy dude, right.

O.K so what your saying is this.....If a loving couple are having hot satisfying sex together , but the girl still wants some on the side and the guy agrees to it, thats o.k, but if a loving couple are not having hot satisfying sex together, but the girl wants some on the side and the guy agrees, thats not o.k... He is weak and she is a gold digger! You say couples should only do it together! What if one of them does not want to because he/she is very happy to be mono?

Dude, WTF are you talking about? If a girl wants to have sex with someone other than her man, she is not 100% satisfied by that man is she? She might want variety, or rough/gentle sex or something else that her man cannot give her. Maybe they swing or maybe the guy likes to watch his wife with another man? For whatever reason she wants to be with someone other than her man, or vice versa, and guess what! One of the guys is gonna be better in bed than the other! It dont make her a gold digger or either of the guys weak. What kinda childish shit are you chatting?

 

I've read it, and its clear what the dude said. They have sex everyday, he gets her off, although not with his dick. He goes down on her in the mornings. Lol She wants sex all the time cause she is a nymph. They love each other, and he loves her kid and they are a happy family! Sounds great to me!

He says that she needs more sexually, and that her lover has a magic wand of a ten inch dick that gives her a million orgasms, and that he spanks her and ties her up because she likes it. He admits that he cannot give her this himself. It does not make their sex bad though! He says its lovin and sensual and shit. She sounds like a lucky lady to me, and he gets off on it as well. Its all good as far as I can see.

What your doing is putting your own insecurities on to the jacob dude! Stop with the name calling bullshit, and dont be so judgemental.

He sounds like he is having a ball, and so is his girl. Good luck to them!

 

So...maybe I should have married a man who has two dicks and a vagina? :rofl:

That's a big step down the road to divorce. Nonstandard arrangements work for strong relationships, not relationships with issues.

 

You married a guy with one dick though, and yet you want to have sex with another man, and girl/girls. I'm sure you love your husband, and if it works for you both, thats cool. Same with Jakob!

All relationships have issues. I love my boyfriend very much, and him me, but we have issues!

 

Well, what would you call a relationship that is the opposite of strong, secure, and stable? Let's not get into petty word games.

If you're a teenager, then you aren't going to know much about strong sexual/romantic relationships. It takes time, effort, and maturity to develop one of those. You haven't had that opportunity yet.

 

Cool posts biteen1. You didn't answer the question though! Is your bf the best you have ever had? Also, are you a boy or a girl, how old are you and what are the issues you speak of?

 

No, I named a number of us who were making the same point.

Did Rachel ask you to come in here and stand up for her and Jaco? They can't defend themselves so they recruit cronies to come in and do it for them?

You’re wrong here because the simple fact is that the girl is not satisfied sexually. That’s not up for debate, it’s a fact! I don’t know how many more times it need be said.

And you obviously don’t know what a gold-digger is. It’s a girl who uses guys for personal gain. This girl is using 2 guys for her own personal gain. That’s a gold digger by definition if there ever was one.

Now it’s obvious to me from the posts you’ve made that you haven’t read this thread in its entirety. Either that, or you just skipped over shit, or twisted facts to suit your own accord. I’m not going to re-explain all my points to you. I was quite clear about everything. So go back and read WHOLE thread and get your facts straight before you come on here trying to start shit.

I’m doing nothing of the sort. You can sit here and try and look at their sexual relationship with rose-colored glasses all you want. But no matter how you spin it, his girl is not sexually satisfied by him, period. End of discussion.

It’s because of that lack of sexual satisfaction that she’s fucking other people. If Jaco was built and skilled like the guy who’s fucking his girl, then she’d have no desire to fuck anyone else because he could give her everything she wanted. So stop suggesting that the girl is wanting variety, or any of that other bullshit cause that’s not the case here. She’s not accentuating anything, she’s filling a void.

 

According to her, the relationship scenario in question has no issues. Their sex is perfect, and the girl is satisfied just fine by Jaco alone. The fact that she's fucking another guy has nothing to do with a lack of sexual satisfaction (in her twisted mind).

 

Like you don't already know the answers to that . Rachel, you should pick your recruits more carefully, so it's not so obvious that they've been brought in to stick up for you.

 

Maybe all relationships you have had have issues, but no not all relationships have issues! If two people are honest with each other, communicate openly, trust each other, have mutual respect for each other and have an amazing sex life they can have a relationship with no issues no problem. I know, because I am in one.

 

agree 100%. if jacobklein had a 10" cock and was willing to do whatever his gf wanted, in theory she wouldn't want anyone else. (If she still wanted another man on the side then we could start a whole new discuission).

the issue here is the selfishness. I'm guessing jk's gf either tried to have a relationship with another man (jk) and it failed OR she scouted and cultivated a cuckold, knowing full well she wouldn't need to be fulfilled by him alone. Imagine a woman, beautiful and sexy targeting a nerd who made good money and would be in awe of her and would be grateful for whatever scraps of pussy she threw his way. Then she could live well, eat well and have someone she could always depend on for whatever she needed; money, babysitting, fix her computer, do the laundry and dishes, prepare her taxes, etc. meanwhile she is getting that void filled with monster cock.

imagine the possibilities...

 

You shouldn't be telling others that they don't know what something is when you, yourself, don't know what it is. A gold digger is someone who marries mostly or solely for money (whether they get it from being married or an eventual divorce settlement). Nothing more, nothing less.

 

Actually, gold diggers come in many different forms. It’s not just about money. It’s really about personal gain. And it has nothing to do with marriage. You don’t have to be married to be a gold digger. Whether a girl chooses to date a guy because he has a nice car, or because he’s willing to support her and her child, or whether she chooses to marry a guy to get half of his estate. It’s all the same thing.

 

A strong relationship is when two people love each other. They care about, look after, and respect each other. That is what is essential! With regards to other stuff, like sex. It's a case of whatever floats your boat, as long as both parties are consenting to what the other is doing, and is happy for them to do it!

I cannot stand judgemental people who try to tell others what is right and what is wrong! There is no right or wrong when it comes to sex between two adults, its about what works for them.

Yes I am still a teen, and I've known my boyfriend my whole life. I know I love him very much, and he loves me. I also know that he makes me feel incredible when we have sex.

 

I'm a boy, I'm 17 and yes my bf is the best that I've ever had! I have not been with that many though. A few girls, but I never really liked it. First time I went with my bf was awesome cool and it's got better ever since. He's one of those porn star stud types. Lol. I love him!:love:

Issues? Nothing serious. He is older than me (22), and I live with him, he works and I'm still at college so he looks after/spoils me, but he has at times been very possessive and jealous! I kinda like being his, but it had got to the point where I wasn't getting to do things I wanted to do because I always had to be with him. That was hard because we both like different things. He is very straight acting, he works out, does martial arts, and unless you knew he was gay, you would never think he was! I'm more the girly/boyish type, but he is the one that is into the gay scene though, he loves all that, but I hate it. I can't stand gay clubs/pubs and was always being dragged to them with his friends. I just like being with my own friends, and hanging out, and going to the cool places with them, and it had got to the point where I wasn't getting to do that.

Its much better now, we still spend lots of time together, but we do our own things independently also. He is still a bit possessive, but I don't mind that, he knows I'm his now, so he doesn't go mental when he sees me being friendly with another boy/girl. Also, I no longer act like a spoilt little boy if he is out late with his friends, and I have to go a whole night without him shagging me. Lol

 

No, they fucking don't. The only thing they go for is the gold. Hence GOLD digger. Its about the MONEY and things pertaining to WEALTH. Not anything else. Just money. Throwing that term out there in any other way is a misuse.

 

Dude, are you a child. Are you for real with that shit above? If so, you have serious issues..

 

So KarenJ says that her husband ranks in the top ten, so we can assume she has had better. She also has a boyfriend, and going by her last post, a girlfriend also.So not only is she using two guys for her personal gain, but a girl also. As long as they are all happy like Jacob and his girl, its cool.

Do you think she is also a Gold digger, is her husband weak and desperate?

 

Oh please … just like you can’t call a girl a whore unless she’s accepting cash for sex. Get the fuck outta here with that BS. People use the term gold digger exactly how I described it all the time. First you want to try and tell me how to define a hypocrite, and now a gold digger. Just stop responding to my post dude. I honestly don’t care how YOU define anything. If I want a definition from you, I’ll ask for it.

I’m not a child, but obviously you are as you’re only 17.

And you’d be surprised at the things people will do on an internet forum. All I’m saying is it looks awfully suspect when someone jumps in a thread out of nowhere, after 35 pages, and immediately starts trying to start shit.

I’ll let Karen answer that question herself. I’m tired of dealing with little kids who just want to stir up shit.:2thumbsup:

 

Yes there is a right and a wrong that grown adult couples can do, such as couples that mutually incorporate beastiality, necrophilia, and pedophilia in their sex lives.

They are extreme examples, but regardless your latter statement of there being no right or wrong when it comes to sex is just wrong, and damaging to society.