Im a 25 year old female- its been about a year since I had anal sex my boyfriend who I've been with for four months wants to do it tomorrow on Thanksgiving I'm nervous about eating food on Thanksgiving and the kind of preparations that I'll need to take also I'll be sleeping at his house that night what can I do while I'm there before we do it to make it more enjoyable and less messy?
Smuggle and enema bag or disposable enema bottle(s) in your purse and about 30 minutes before you anticipate sex, sneak into the bathroom and clean yourself out. You should be good to go - take your time, be thorough.
If you can get to an adult toy store, buy weighted balls that are attached together by a string. It will be such an orgasmic treat for you and him if you use those while your doing anal. You will love it so much more!!!! (They are used in your pussy- just so you know)
like jamgrassphan says just use a simple douche - u can get a simple rubber bulb type with detachable spout - works good Simon :sunny:
shouldnt need to do anything. the rectum isnt for storing waste - only if you penetrate the colon (a different pleasure all the same, but difficult to achieve, unless you squat and squirm and have a very long boy) - i find that drinking a bit gets the diuretic effect going and everything gets dried out in there - no risk of things getting dirty. also eating the day before is the issue, really, not the day of and its not a 100% exact 36 hrs every time, different for every person and your diet even your water intake... dont think changing diet is necessary but maybe lay off the multiple phillycheese steaks the day before?
^ as above ....In my experience as long the girl has been to the toilet it will be clean enough. Again in my experience anal sex usually is relatively quick. If you start to feel like things are gettin messy ... pull out clean up (shower) and use the other hole to finish. Each time if taken the dirt track its been a 1 or 2 minute event and that has been enough for the girl. If shes into it she will cum almost immediately ... if not it will quickly become uncomfortable. Unless of course your hard core and youve done it heaps. For most its just a variation that one or both want to try.
Not 100% in agreement.....my lady didn't come but loved the feeling and encouraged me to keep fucking her for what seemed like ages, and was at least 15 minutes. When I eventually came she held me in her ass until my dick was soft again. Different folk, different strokes.
1 or 2 minutes? Wow, that's quick. You humping like rabbits? No wonder you can't last and the girl gets uncomfortable. Instead, take your time, go slowly and enjoy it. It's not a race. I think people have been watching way too much porn, where they just pound away relentlessly. Who really fucks like that?