Girls, is your current Husband/boyfriend your best ever lover. And.......

How can you be that naive?

 

I am not naive, my wife is a very honest and truthful person.

My wife was sexually abused as a child. She did not lose her virginity until college and had very bad emotional experiences when she had sex. After having a few encounters she went 6 or 7 years where she didn't have sex at all. Eventually she went in therapy for her trauma and by her mid 20's decided it to try again. She had 2 encounters that were underwhelming so she just decided that sex wasn't a big priority for her. She met me when she was 28 and said I was gentle and was the first man to make her feel comfortable with her body and the first man she wasn't repulsed by after having sex with.

That is why she only had sex 6 times in 10 years, never let let a man go down on her and would not give blowjobs.

 

I don't understand why anyone would have a problem with the type of relationship Jacobklein has with his girl? So what if he excepts the fact that there is a guy that can satisfy his girls sexual needs better than he can, so what if he is his girls cuckold.

They are both adults, and they are both into it, so I think its really cool. To be able to be that honest with each other is awesome. The most important thing is that they love each other!

 

I hope you don't mind me saying this Rachel, but it sounds like you are trying to convince yourself that there is nothing wrong with it.

If you want me to give you tips about how you should go about cuckolding your own man, just let me know!

 

But does he want it?

Would he be insulted by her asking?

What troubles would it lead to down the relationship?

How much would it hurt the guy's ego?

Will he feel betrayed?

Would the relationship even last?

 

Don't even waste your time, you can't reason with them.

look at it this way; if a woman fucks another man while jerking off her boyfriend at the same time because it is'cute how fast he cums' do you think she respects her boyfriend?

There is no respect for your partner in a cuckold relationship. The man wants to be humiliated and dominated because deep down he hates himself for failing to measure up to some perverted ideal of manhood. the woman, to function in this relationship has to be able to treat the cuckold like a slave. A woman who knows she can not only fuck another man with the knowledge of her SO but even have him watch cannot in any way respect him as a man. And why would a woman stay in a relationship with a man who had a little penis and suffered from PE when she had experience with a man whose cock was TWICE AS BIG? Maybe jacobklein is a good provider financially, a nice companion and surrogate father so she gets money, emotional support and help raising her kid for the small price of occasionally fucking him while being able to be sexually satisfied by mr. big cock.

She can only have all this because jacobklein tolerates it, even encourages it.

This sounds cruel but if I were him I would target women who either didn't care about jacob's sexual inadequacies or a woman who would be grateful just to have a man, even a man with a small penis who cums too quick.

In high school I wanted to date cheerleaders even though I had no chance with any of them so I graduated a virgin. in retrospect there were girls who were interested in me who would have had sex with me but I thought they weren't pretty enough. We all have to be realistic about the mates we really can hope to have.

 

I get the feeling you think I am trying to put Jacob/Rachel down...

If that is the case, sorry, but I am not.

 

You can live your life however you want and do whatever you want! If it works for you then it is not wrong.

Thing is you can not cuckloid a man that is not a cuckloid in the first place. No alpha male out there is going to be okay with their woman coming to them and telling them they are a shitty lover, have a small penis and that they are going to go out and fuck another guy that is better, but you can not do the same with another woman. It also takes a very selfish woman to be in this type of relationship that does not care about having a strong secure male as their life partner.

I don't know her and maybe she is this type of woman, but if I was her I would not assume that her man is this kind of man unless he shows otherwise.

I know my lady would not want to be with a man that could not step up and be the man and I would not be with a woman who was selfish and got off on humilating me and we are very openminded people.

 

My current boyfriend is the best all around. He's a gentleman, he's adorable, he's a cuddler! And he's amazing in bed! He's just the right size for me, and he really knows how to work me into a frenzy!

 

Like a breath of fresh air! I agree with every word of this.

Well done

 

Lol...

 

You know, this thread is full of assumptions, presumptions and it's all by people who haven't decided to step out of their comfort zone and go and interact with the people who are actually in these relationships and gain another perspective. Throwing around words like weak, selfish, etc, and without actually asking the people involved about how they feel and why they do what they do.

Also. It's disrespectful to a huge swath of women to suggest that they're selfish if they're not hooking up with alpha male/strong secure types. There's many women on this earth who are in happy relationships with men who do not fit into that mold. To suggest she's selfish for that is a bunch of bullshit.

And going back to the cuckolding aspect: It's also disrespectful to the men in these relationships to assume that just because they have a kink that you have no interest in, that they're not "strong and secure". I would bet that most, if not all, of them have jobs, provide for their families, and so on. And they're probably on equal footing with their wives or girlfriends in the rest of the aspects of their relationship that doesn't include their sex lives.

These couples have their normal lives where they're working, going out, having fun with their spouses/SOs, etc. Then they have their sex lives where they're involving other people.

And it boils down to one thing: It's just sex to them. Stop being so fucking judgmental and presumptuous.

 

^^^ AKA a gold digger. They come in all forms and levels of sophistication. It's just like I said earlier...

 

No one is suggesting that all women hook up with alpha males.

but if you need an alpha male to fulfill you sexually then you are selfish to also want a tiny dicked cuckold on the side to pay your bills, watch your kid and mow the lawn.

And if you are a man who is not imposing physically and has a small penis that doesn't mean you are inferior and not worthy of respect. he says he's tender and attentive in bed. well, lots of women would take a guy, short, weak and tiny dick and love him dearly and not need another man to humiliate him. Not all women need 10" shoved into them. I have 7 3/4" and that is sometimes too much for my wife's pussy.

another thing; why not work on the PE thing? I don't know how old j.klein is but if he is under 40 with a normal refraction time he could have his partner suck him off, blow his load and then on his 2nd time he could fuck a little longer. also Viagra helps with PE. PE is not incurable. I suffered from it in my early twenties but I worked on it. Now I can go as long as I need to.

There are also dildos if his woman wants a fuller sensation in her pussy.

Plus if it's small anal sex should be a breeze. I have tried anal sex with all of my long term partners and none of them would let me finish or try again. my cock is pretty wide, circumference is almost as big as the length. this makes vaginal sex very pleasurable to the women I have fucked but not so much for their rectums.

to just give up and say :"my dick is small and I cum too quick" and abdicate all resposibility to be a man is just so weak and pathetic.

 

Heads up, here comes stud number one!

 

The idea that the cuckold is giving up is mistaken. Some may say that so that they can try and reason it out on some level with dummies who don't understand how a voyeuristic guy could be turned on by the thought of his SO with another man. The idea that she's just being a gold digger is also mistaken. It's also seems kind of sexist as well. Voyeuristic husband who is secure in his wife's love for him + a wife who is at least slightly exhibitionist = formula for a relationship like that.

I presume this is futile trying to jam any sort of tolerance for the couples involved into your skull.

 

So uh...Jacob...do you have the option to play around as well? Like if you did, would she get mad? Or is it more, she lets you, but you don't want/need to?

Just wondering. I mean, I'm pretty much libertarian in just about...well...everything. If you enjoy/fine/love your relationship, I am happy for you...but why not...expand your horizons? ;P Why not experiment, spread out and enjoy the options available to you? I mean, surely equality would be nice?

 

Did it ever occur to you that the desire to be a cuckold is so far outside the comprehension of most hetero males that it is anathema?

also, if he is a voyeur and she is an exhibitionist why does she fuck her ex with the 10" cock? Why not find another male, whom she has no past with and who isn't massively hung? It sounds like the only good part of her relationship with the ex was the sex. Well now she has it all, sex with the jerk with the big dick AND a nurturing relationship with littledick. It would be like saying I like my new job, the hours are great, the stress isn't bad and my boss is very nice but I am going to keep getting my paycheck from my old job which was very stressful, worked long hours and my boss was an asshole but the money was awesome.

It is clear that reading on Hip forums that there is a certain percentage of men who are aroused at their women fucking other men but I can assure you that it is small percentage. Fidelity matters to most men and they don't want their women being intimate with other men. even the hypocritical liars who cheat on their wives feel that way.

Don't expect too much tolerance and understanding for something that is utterly alien to most people.

I can tell you that if another man fucked MY wife I would kill him, then kill myself. I would not harm her for the sake of my kids but I wouldn't want to live with that shame plus she would have to live the rest of her life with the guilt, knowing she destroyed her family and caused the only man that ever loved her to kill himself. Her body is a temple and no other man is worthy enough to touch it. I honor that by not touching other women.


You see, you claim intolerance and lack of understanding for your view but just know for every cuckold their is many insanely jealous husbands who treat their wives like queens.

 

Stop trying to flirt with me Rachel. I already told you I'm not into hypocrites. :2thumbsup:

 

I would never flirt with the type of guy that would actually quote his own post......When I read it, I giggled, and thought......Bless, this guy really smells himself!