When ever I go to masturbate I can't seem to hit the point of orgasming. *No matter what I try.*Smell, vibrations, rubbing, candle wax, movies nothing works. Some books get me wet but while reading and after still nothing.* Can anyone help me?*I'm 21 and there is a guy I like.*And this not being able to hit my woow point is making me embarased and I really like him.
Relax and don't stress over it. The more you worry, the harder it is to orgasm! You've got to let yourself go and just enjoy yourself! Good luck!
Why should being 21 and there being a guy involved have anything to do with it? There is no age by which you should have had an orgasm, and many women who can orgasm by themselves cant when they're with a guy. You shouldnt be embarrassed at all! All you need to do is keep exploring your body and different ways that make you feel good, whether alone or with someone else. Relax and have fun! Sex is an experience in itself, not a race to a finish line.
As a physician, I would ask a few things first. Do you take any medications? Some serotonin reuptake inhibitors such as prozac, paxil etc. have significantly depressed orgasmic response in patients. Do you have any other medical conditions? Lack of sensorium can occur with head trauma etc.
