I just Cant achieve vaginal orgasm..

Can any ladies say if this is true or not. Reason I ask is I remember an old gf of mine saying the same thing, that she had never had an orgasm before with past bf's. So I set to work to put that right and after a few sessions and one knackered bf later still nothing had happened. We took a break and talked about it, and she told me that while the sex was more enjoyable than what she had had before, now she was getting the urge to pee at which point she would tell me to stop. So I told her not to hold it back and if she feels like peeing let it go and see what happens. Well she did and it led to an orgasm that took her completely by surprise and no pee. After that she had no problem in cumming.

 

Leeds, it looks like you have your proof. I am starting to acheive the sensation now when I masturbate (have squirted twice with a man), but haven't yet got to squirt by myself.

 

I will tell my story. My wife and I have been having sex for 6 years now and only figured this out about a week ago. Anyways ill tell the story as it is. First of all it came through fingering. That was the only way and as of right now is the only way this is happening. It seems to have taken alot of effort mentally on her end. i always had to keep her distracted from what she was doing. Especially when that urge to pee came around. If she focuses on that and tried it was not going to happen. What ended up working when she felt it was i dropped ice and hot wax on her and caught her by surprise and that seemed to do the trick within moments the sheets were soaked like basements in new Orleans. Since then she has gotten better with it and no longer needs the ice and wax now that she has trained herself to deal with it properly. She the key is not being gentle and pushing up right against her spot. Hope this helps.

 

you POURED hot wax on your wife? didnt you burn her

 

I had the same issue until recently. My boyfriend is great in bed. Amazing. But the first couple times, he would get off and have to finish me by hand. Now, I get him going n make sure he puts his fingers to work first for a few minutes. I've noticed when we are high it lasts longer And feels even better. Experiment with foreplay and different positions! I found if we do a decent amount of foreplay and end everything with doggy style it's ended up being rather mind blowing! And that feeling of wanting to pee? I recommend letting go, because it sounds like your actually so aroused you're about to squirt.. Which is not only amazing for you, but can be a huge satisfactory turn on for men. Makes them realize how hard they are rocking your world

 

I totally agree with what everyone is saying about the pee feeling. I went through that too and u just have to keep going. I actually when I first ever felt it went with it, n that was when I first even started having sex, but then I got like all self conscious about it for a long time for some reason (I have no idea, it's dumb I know lol), but after I got over it again it was just like an "omg that is what I have been chasing for so long now!". You just have to let go and go with it, it's not a bad thing at all!