Is This Normal For Guys To Do?

I'm not really experienced at oral. I've had a lot of sex, I just haven't blown that much, lol. So I was giving my boyfriend a bj and he kind of stepped in. Like I was using my hands and my mouth and he would take my hand off or put it back on. Once in a while he would tell me like what to do. Then his body got really stiff so I could tell he was about to cum. He told me to use my tongue, and I did, but then he pulled out of my mouth and jacked off for like 5 seconds, then he put it back in my mouth and came. I took that as a sign that I couldn't do it. I couldn't make him cum so he had to do it himself. But some of my friends say that's pretty common for guys to do, but I still feel kinda bad. Is that a normal thing or was it a bad bj?

 

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Cheers Glen.

 

face feeding. probably because you were doing a lousy job feeding yourself..

 

For some guys it can be difficult to ejaculate in different settings, especially during a less than perfect blowjob (speaking from personal experience), although it's not necessarily your fault and sometimes it just seems easier for a guy to help with his own hand when he's about to cum. Don't feel bad about it though, the best thing you can do is encourage him to tell and show you what feels best to him. Otherwise it seems kinda disrespectful for us guys to just start instructing a girl who has the cock in her mouth, as if she wasn't doing a good enough job.

 

Ya, nothin to feel bad about. I'm sure he will be more than willing to let you practice.

 

You did Fine Sweetheart, do you know how many girls won't let a guy Cum in their mouth ?? You BF is lucky to have a willing partner !!

 

It is perfectly normal. I do it all the time with my wife. Lots of guys find it hard to cum from a BJ, i know i do.
You would have been doing a good job, dont worry

 

My gland is generally pretty sensitive. Sometimes my missus can be all over it doing everything that feels good then she'll move her tongue and I'll get a sensation so powerful I'm almost humping my cock out of her mouth trying to get some distance and at first she thought she was doing it all wrong too. I don't know what a "pefect" blowjob is, but for me the individual, I just like her to work out the same area. I'm not fussed with tongue swirling or anything, it's just way too powerful for me sometimes. The only way I can cum is if she is focusing on the same spot and rubbing her tongue over the same area of the gland. Even if she does this then changes position it's too intense for me. Now this makes it hard for her when she's uncomfortable or neck soreness or something and she'll change positions and everytime she does, no matter how close I was to achieving orgasm, it's back to square one for me.

 

I can't even get off from a blowjob. I mean I can, but it could take up to an hour....even from the best head givers. I've only come across 2 women, out of dozens, that were willing to stick it out and finish the job. So don't take it personally. Ask him what he likes and as long as you're into it and receptive....you're a step ahead of the rest.

 

What 'gland' are you talking about?

 

Blowjobs get me off faster than anything else.

 

My cocks head. It's a gland isn't it? With many more glands towards the bottom? Maybe I used the wrong term, I just didn't want to foul the post up with childish names.
And like you I have problems cumming from oral because women are so into doing weird shit with their mouths and tongues while they're doing it. If I am to cum from oral I need to start taking strokes in her mouth, it's like my body is so used to being the one pumping a chick until I cum that I struggle when those muscles in my body aren't working.

 

Glans.

 

Wiki: A gland is an organ in an animal's body that synthesizes a substance for release of substances such as hormones

 

lololololololololol

 

The main thing is I know what I think I'm talking about.

 

I'm jealous. The few orgasms I've experienced from oral have been the most intense I've ever had. I've tried having partners finish me off after getting close vaginally, but its just not the same.

 

As PR already said, you're thinking of the word glans. It's the technical term for the 'head' of your dick. Derived from the Latin term for 'acorn'

 

Yeah, same shit, different smell if you ask me

I've been trying to find a piece of mind on it and googled it in several sentences and am finding it really depends on who's writing the article. I've even read that there's glans on the gland which was how I was putting it.

 

I think your google is drunk