Straight girl falling for Lesbian

Arghh im so confused. I am with a guy atm been together for 3 and a half years, recently i found out this girl was a lesbian i thought she was cute before i even knew she was a lesbian but thought nothing of it, now i can't get her out of my head shes amazinggggg i just want her so bad, i dnt even think she knows who i am whats going on? need advice ASAP

 

Hi,

I get how confused you are as I'm in a similar situation. All my previous relationships have been with guys and I always thought I was straight but now I've fallen for a girl and I'm freaking out. I've tried to talk to my friends and they don't get it, they say I', confused. Have you spoken to anyone about it yet?

Talia

 

Who cares what all of your previous relationships were with.. if you wanna be with a girl, then be with one.. sexuality is so fluid and if you think you want to be with a girl, then go for it.. the only bad thing that can really happen is that you find out that you really might not like chicks after all and you break up.. you never know until you try

 

But then what happens if it goes wrong and you hurt that person, the girl I'm with has been hurt badly before and I'd hate to hurt her. I know I'm happy with her but I always thought I was straight so it's confusing and I tried to talk to my friends and they don't get it

 

All you can do is go for it and see where it leads

 

I understand that it is very confusing. When I was 21, I was on a local committee dealing with youth matters and there was a fella a few years younger than me. We got along well. He actually started talking to me and it didn't take long to feel the need to kiss him every time we were together. I didn't do anything as it would have been unprofessional. We were both there in the same status. Despite having already having had sex with other males, it was just fucking to me but here I was falling for him. Extremely confusing. You have a relationship here and I assume you love him so don't go and rush anything. You have emotions to explore. For all you know, she just may be your soul mate.

 

Beware the lure of Lesbian Los Vegas!

It's interesting that some people here are advising you to cheat.

 

This reasoning would lead you never to have any relationship with anyone, "just in case it goes wrong and you hurt them". What you gotta do is to make up your mind, before anything starts, that if it all goes wrong you will try your hardest NOT to hurt them in any way as a result.

 

Does this other girl like you back? Maybe you should admit your feelings and see how she responds. Be honest though and tell her how confused you are and that you don't want to hurt her, but might unintentionally. She can determine then if she's prepared for that risk.

 

Its only cheatng if its the opposite sex, same sex dosnt.count, especially of they are hot