My gay role model is this super attractive dude I saw at a nightclub in Sao Paulo dancing to house music at 7am. But, if I had to name-drop, I'd say Yukio Mishima.
Carravagio, Leonardo Da Vinci. Tennisee Williams, Mathew Mitcham, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Matthew_Mitcham Noel Coward, Stephen Fry, my Uncle Alf, Eric Timewell, Rudolf Nureyev, Ian Roberts, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ian_Roberts_(rugby_league) Robert Helpman, Patrick White, and every gay member of AID's care teams I've worked with - - - the list could go on , , ,
Stephen Fry is my roll model, and through him I adopted Oscar Wilde as one as well. Thats the main two.