Sex with two lesbians.

Hi.

I was asked by a lesbian couple to impregnate one of them, as they want a baby together, they trust me, they think I have the qualities that they'd want in a child, and I have zero interest in being a father, or being involved in the child's life.

They decided they wanted to do it 'the natural way'. First time was when we decided this - we'd already decided they wanted my sperm, but I was there one afternoon and we decided we'd have sex. Now, one of them has never been with a man, nor has any interest in doing so. She said it was OK to touch her breasts and such, but nothing more. She was going to concentrate on her girlfriend. Her girlfriend (who I was impregnating) was fine with anything, but was concerned, and didn't want to do to much to me, in case it caused problems in their relationship. So, they went in the bedroom, made each other cum, and I went in, masturbated, touched various parts, got hard, then had sex, and came inside her. All was well, it was fun and exciting, albeit a little odd, not having blowjobs/handjobs, kissing or going down on either of them.

We did it again a week or so after, during her fertile period, and I had trouble cumming, but I managed it in the end.

I went round earlier, and it took place in much the same way, I got hard, had sex, but then found I wasn't going to cum. So I masturbated while they fucked, it was sexy and I was massively turned on. But then I just went soft. I couldn't maintain an erection, and I went home. Now I feel like I've let them down (they told me it was ok, we'll try again and such), and I just feel a bit... bad about it really.

It's such an unusual situation, so I googled it, and couldn't find anyone who had been in a similar situation. I've felt a little run down these past couple weeks, plus the bed broke, so we went into the front room to resume - could that be it? A combination of that, plus 'performance anxiety' and the lack of stimulation from them both?

Any tips? Or is this a thing people tend to find in any threesome?

I'd be interested in your thoughts.

Thanks for reading.

 

I can't really answer your question, but I just wanted to say, I think what you're doing for them is soo sweet.

 

Thank-you. I mean... I get a little from it, it's sex with two very attractive lesbians. But more than that, I'm really good friends with the one I'm having sex with, and I know this will make their lives so, so much happier. Which makes this all the more frustrating.

 

Sounds more like fantasy to me.

 

A fantasy that I can't keep an erection during sex with two very attractive women?

Yes, that sounds likely.

 

Just as there's no limit to what the imagination can dream up, there's no limit as to what fantasised situations can get different people aroused.

Sorry. Perhaps what you're saying is for real, but for my 2 penn'orth, quite frankly, I don't believe it is.

 

Well, frankly, it is quite irrelevant what you believe.

Can anyone offer any advice? I'm genuinely quite mortified about this, it's not something that has happened when I have been having sex with a single partner before, so there is clearly some performance anxiety, I guess. Has anyone experienced this before?

Thanks.

 

If it is for real, it must be very difficult to have sex with a woman who doesn't want you or find you attractive in any way.

 

They are in a lesbian relationship, but the woman I am having sex with has slept with men before.

I'm not asking to discuss the whys and wherefores, nor to boast, nor fantasise. I want to help this couple, and I am having difficulty, so I'm seeking help from anyone who has been in a similar situation.

 

In that case I have no advice to offer. Sorry.

 

Why not have just the one girl come over to your place and do it all the
regular way?

But if something like the bed breaking blew your focus & you were already feeling under pressure to "perform" I honestly could see that killing your Mojo.

Especially if there is no fun in it for you! Whoever heard of a three some with no kissing or head and all the restrictions? That's against the general principle I think. Jeez no wonder you can't nut, you may have two girls but you aren't banging either like you would like to! Fail-some!

 

Becuase if it was for real all you'd need is 1 Playboy, 1 Turkey Baster and a cup

 

At least I'm not the only skeptic.

 

Whether the story is true or not, I can totally see why there might be performance issues. While you want to help a friend out, having sex soley for procreation purposes when you don't truly want a child is not "sexy" per se, and maybe there is something going on subconciously that this whole idea/purpose is stopping you from acheiving the goal.

Just go the turkey baster route.

 

you might want to think about legal issues. You should be prepared to pay child support. One time where your little head might be thinking better than your big head.

just a thought,

 

I would tell them both that if they wanted my sperm they were going
to have to get it from me, in what ever hand, mouth, pussy
configuration they needed.

 

My personal guess would be that you are having the same problem I would have and why I could never do a hooker. I can't get sexually aroused by a woman I know isn't also aroused and attracted to me. How pretty she is doesn't matter. This I would surmise is your problem. And your love of tenderness and caring though is one reason these women want you to be the donor. It's a bit of a dilemma.

 

does sound like it would be a lot easier! Otherwise just drop a little blue pill and have her get you hard.

Simon :sunny:

 

^^^ Best advice right here.

 

After I saw the gif willy blue posted, I googled 'cute sperm.' Yeah...0.o

 

Two words: turkey baster

"natural way"? Sperm meets egg is natural. It shouldn't matter how it gets there. If you're this uncomfortable, and if they want a baby that badly, just jerk off into a cup and hand it over.

I'm skeptical about the veracity of your story as well, but anything's possible.