I can't orgasm. :(

When ever I go to masturbate I can't seem to hit the point of orgasming.
No matter what I try.
Smell, vibrations, rubbing, candle wax, movies nothing works.*
Some books get me wet but while reading and after still nothing.
Can anyone help me?*I'm 21 and there is a guy I like.
And this not being able to hit my woow point is making me embarased and I really like him.

 

vibrator

 

Got one and doesn't work. :/
I get to the point but can't get over

 

are you on any medication? lots of things like anti depressants or opiates can make it difficult to acheive orgasm.

 

maybe if you put the same concentration into orgasming that you put into making duplicate threads all over the place...

 

No I am not on any medication.
I am also a virgin but have been masturbating since I was about 14/16

 

So have you had an orgasm before ?

 

How much knowledge do you know about anatomy and arousal in general?

I assume your a female. If not inform us otherwise.

 

@ tricky no I have not

@Mon yes I am female

 

My only suggestion is to keep trying to give yourself one first. Dont aim for the orgasm, just keep the intensity up, maybe it will happen maybe not ...just enjoy it anyway ... Dont put pressure on yourself. If you have a fantasy like being watched or watching someone else ..maybe this would help. That always makes me cum quicker and is much more intense than just wanking for the hell of it.
Even girls who cum easily have difficulty with a new partner so this isnt my recommendation. but Im sure there are heaps of guys who will tell u otherwise ... haha

 

How did you learn about masturbation? Through watching Porn, or Sex-Ed lessons at school? Neither of which are much good when it comes to real life experiences.
Speaking as a male I learned how to masturbate by watching a classmate demonstrating his skill to all the other boys in the toilets at school then, when I got home, I copied what he had done & have never looked back. However, did you ever share the experience of masturbation with any of your schoolfriends / siblings, as this is usually the best way of learning.

 

or you could just try stuff and do what feels good like every other kid in the world did; masturbation is really not hard to figure out.

start jacking off in the school bathroom and you're going to have to change schools. after you get released from the hospital following the assault.

 

while reading your fav passage in your fav 'book' have your guy eat you out....worked for a lady I know with a similar prob

 

I'm sorry when I first read this all I could think about was "The Big Lebowski"

Jackie Treehorn: The brain is the largest sexual organ.

The Dude: On you maybe.

C/S,
Rev J

 

Magic wand