help me. i just got married.

i'm newly married. and before i got married, our sex life was great. now, not so much. just found out my significant other just realized... he doesnt like sex... FML!

he says its bc when we first got together he was taking steroids, which i made him quit 3months ago, and it was all good until a few weeks ago.... now it's like pulling teeth to get fucked. he knew i loved sex when we got together... idk what to do!!!! please help.

 

Uhm how do we have to help? If he doesn't want to work on that with you it is rather simple (no I wasn't thinking of getting him back on steroids ). Too bad you find out after you married...

 

i guess you'll have to get him back on the roids.

next time, don't marry a steroid junkie.

 

simple case of ''you married the wrong guy''
sorry honey....you gotta leave him...everything with him from here on in is just a waste of time....

dont lie to people when they ask why..tell them your dude turned out to be a dud

 

not trying to end my marriage.. just wondering if any1 knows what to do to get him in the mood... or if anyone has found them selves in a similar situation. <3

 

Either masturbate a lot, divorce him or, get a boyfriend to have sex with!!

 

He tricked you. Not having sex with you is perfectly legal grounds for divorce. Funny, though, I thought steroids were supposed to suppress sex while you were taking them, not after.

If you don't want to end it, I suggest marriage counseling.

 

i didnt say you were trying to end the marriage...but its the inevitable conclusion so why wait...turf him today

once a dude loses interest in his woman it is pretty goddamned rare that he regains that interest for any real length of time...it just doesnt happen except in rarest of cases


have you actually gone through the usual things people do to spice things up?

which one of you married ''up''?

 

It is clear that it would not be favourable to divorce so soon I think if anyone knows what gets him in the mood it is he himself. So the main thing is if he is willing to get 'in the mood' to please you in this regard. If he is not willing because he simply doesn't like sex as you said you guys do have a problem and I don't have a clue how to help, sorry...

 

Slip him some horny pills?

 

Maybe you shoulda married the BEST man

 

oh honey I really wish I could help. that is tough. How long did you two date before you got married? You would think he would have TOLD you that he actually didn't enjoy sex before the two of you, you know....got engaged or married. I know my fiance very well enough to know that this boy will never not enjoy or want to have sex.....

hmmm. I mean did he explain his reasoning? maybe if we knew the reason we could give better advice on how to get him in the mood. I mean he must find YOU attractive right? I'm sure he does. i dunno maybe try to find out what he's really into..

 

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Sounds like someone likes a challenge. How rape-y. :biggrin:

I hate to be the one to break the news for ya, but he may not be so interested in having sex with you. I wouldn't assume anything about other chicks...

 

What the fuck? Just hop on his cock. That simple. Handcuff the mother fucker is you have to, who doesn't like sex? what the fuck

 

:drool5:

 

First of all are you certain he has quit taking steriods? A normal healthy guy that is not interested in sex is not normal! Something has got to be going on with your dude.

 

thread title made me lol

 

The problem with steroids is that when you come off them it can kill your libido because your testosterone levels will be in the toilet. This is because the body stops producing testosterone to compensate for the excess testosterone from the steroids.

So this could very well be a medical issue rather than a "not liking sex" issue. The longer he was using the drugs, the longer it will take his body to get back to normal. And if he really abused them for years on end then his body may never be able to get back to normal, in which case he would need to visit a hormonal therapy doctor for treatment.

Good luck

 

Good Advice...:2thumbsup:



Cheers Glen.