Girls, is your current Husband/boyfriend your best ever lover. And.......

You're a smarty pants think out side your normal thinking. Open up your mind.

 

I asked you to explain.

If she's not willing to engage in this activity because she's scared, does that not make her a coward, chicken, hypocryte, (add in your own descriptor)?

 

At the very least , she's a hypocrite. Karen J is fearful her man might want more out of a sexual liason or the other woman might.

You know what is important about fidelity and marriage vows? It is knowing that when you are having a bad stretch, when you are unhappy with your life, when you are worried or scared or you have gone fat or become ill there is someone there, every step of the way who accepts you for who you are, who forgives your mistakes and bad behaviors, who nurtures you when you are weak, who comforts you when you are scared.

A woman who is off somewhere sucking some other guy's cock isn't in a position to do any of those things .

When we marry, we are saying, I want to spend my life with this person, in good times and bad and no one else is going to come between us. All the sacrifices, all the surrender, all the devotion gets repaid a hundred fold. Focusing all that energy on one person creates intensity, passion. If a woman has the choice to say, honey, I hope you feel better but then leaves to get ass fucked by a man with a cock twice as big as her husband, it kind of dilutes the sentiment a bit.

Hard to fault the women here as they are only taking what they are offered but any man who sanctions her woman fucking someone else is so pathetic, so despicable, so disgusting, so weak, so worthless that he is not worthy of any respect. I absolutely pity any man who is so deficient as to be ok with his woman putting another cock inside one of her orifices. I don't want my wife to even hug another man let alone do anything else. My wife had coffee with a gay male co-worker on a Saturday morning once and I was out of my fucking mind. I want her ALL for myself. I want to possess her utterly, to make her think my cock is the only cock, my tongue is the only tongue, my arms the only arms. Maybe my perspective is different because I am 6'2" and have a penis which when erect measures 7 3/4" that I don't feel the need to take a back seat to any man. My wife is only 5'2" and I tower over her and I know she looks up to me in so many ways; for my intelligence, my judgement, my trustworthiness and my passion.

I am not rich, not handsome, can't dance, suffer from depression, have Parkinson's but I know I am all the man she needs. and you know what? She is all the woman I need.

This whole swinger, open relationship crap makes me puke.

 

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An I told you to think for yourself, to open your mind to the way others think .

I can understand her thinking. What the guy wrote about taking joy in her pleasure, her reaching out and taking his hand when she was about to orgasm. That was beautiful! But am I going to rush out and find some guy to do that to my wife, I think not.
If he take joy in the relationship his wife has who am I to judge and say he is wrong.

I can see no one being a coward for being strong enough in there relationship to know where the lines are drawn.

 

greeat fuciking post.....btw am 6'2 AND with a 7 3/4 cock but am handsome, can dance, got a job and no oldstimers....

 

Yes, as sexy and cool as I think jacobkleins relationship is, I do not think it would be right for us. That doesn't mean that the idea dosn't turn me on though. It does!

 

Please get it right. I'm not saying anyone's wrong for wanting to share their partner sexually. But when you praise and support an activity that you wouldn't dare engage in yourself, that's the very definition of hypocrisy.

I already explained why I think she's a coward in addition to a hypocrite, so I won't repeat myself there. Apparently what you see as strength, I see as cowardice. You say to-m-A-to, I say to-m-AH-to....

 

Well, I fully support the Gay/Lesbian/Bi/Transgender lifestyle. I think that is also beautiful, but I would not want to engage in it myself.

Do you really want me to beat your ass again you naughty boy?

 

Well then why don't you be a gentleman and stop calling a lady names.

 

Unfortunately, your comparison doesn't make sense because you're not gay or bi and thus wouldn't get off on it like you would being fucked by another guy. However, if you are in fact gay or bi and refuse to engage in gay/bi sex then yes that also makes you a hypocrite for that too.

Now let me guess... you still don't get it and are ditzy enough to believe that you made such a great point with you're previous post that we should all praise you for it.

Why don't you be a gentleman and just butt out? I got no beef with you (thus far) and this doesn't concern you.

 

Hahahaaaaaa

 

It's a shame you can't work on your brain the way you work on your biceps.

It makes perfect sense ya big dummy. Let me explain! I think going with a girl is sexy, but not sexy enough for me to want to try it! Now that I've cleared that up.....

This thread has started to get interesting because of Jacobklein81 and others. Please do not post anymore of your silly little boy macho nonsense!

 

That's because YOU'RE NOT BI or GAY! That's the fundamental reason why your analogy doesn't work. Lord you really are about as dumb as a rock aren't you?

Yeah, great attempt at trying to clear that up . Perhaps one of your little "protectors" can help you put together an analogy that actually makes sense, since you obviously cannot do it on your own. Or better yet, why don't you just admit that you're a hypocrite and a coward? Sorry, let me use language you can understand... Why don't you just admit that you're a phoney-baloney and a scaredy-cat for reinforcing (sorry, difficult word... that means boosting) sexual behavior that you refuse to take part in?

 

Yes my current girl is the best I've ever had, she knows exactly how to make me cum and does it with a smile on her face , and it doesn't hurt that she's really tight

 

I am a young married woman. I've only had sex with 4 men. And 2 women. My husband is the best.

 

Mind if I ask a question to the men who let their wives have sex with other men?

Do you let it happen because you feel inadequate, unworthy, pathetic or self-loathing? Do you have a 'why bother attitude?' and just gave up? Insecure? Is it because she is hot and you are afraid you will never ever find someone that hot again?

Is it onesided? Do you go out and have sex with other women?

Or do you have a fetish for it? Do you enjoy it? Do you occassionally join in? Do you let her do it because you don't mind or don't feel much jealousy? Is it because you have such a strong emotional connection that you trust her enough not to leave you for him, or that you don't mind it?

Not hostile (despite the rather harsh words), but I wanna know. I don't think I could stay in a relationship like that...that being said, I don't judge those who are in it. I'm a rather liberal person about pretty much anything, and as long as no one gets hurt, and everyone has fun, I'm fine with it.

However...are the men who are letting this happen merely surpressing their hate, hurt and anger? Or do they actually not mind?

 

Considering all the different sexual things people can do together, I can't imagine living with somebody who was unable or unwilling to find a way to get me off. Having a nonfunctioning dick doesn't prevent a guy from becoming an expert on oral sex, hand jobs, and dildoes! A man who gives up and turns it over to somebody else is just a loser.

You must have me confused with somebody else. I haven't told you anything about my arrangement.

Nobody is forcing you to read about it, think about it, or comment on it. Enjoy your traditional monogamy, and shut the fuck up! The people you hate don't value your opinion.

There's a huge difference between swinging and having an open relationship, especially of the kind being talked about in this thread. Most swingers are just having a little extra fun and adventure, not trying to compensate for a spouse's inadequacies. Partner swapping/sharing is fair, honest, and kinky.

My hubby and I only swap with one other couple. It's a closed group.

 

sorry, I think I confused you and rachel85.

 

It is nice to see an apology on here every now and then.