Girls, is your current Husband/boyfriend your best ever lover. And.......

My ex husband was my best lover but he was not the smartist man I have ever been with. He sure knew what he was doing in bed though but it gets to the point you can't stay with someone just because they are great lovers. Hmmm, maybe that is why I have refused to get with anyone since I left him. I am afraid they won't be as good as he was.

 

My husband and my boyfriend would both rank in my top ten, I suppose, but it isn't anything that I regularly think about. If they didn't meet my sexual standards and expectations, I wouldn't be with either one of them. What else matters?

They don't ask, and I don't bring it up.

 

I dont know why, but this really turns me on. Lol It's so cool that she can share this stuff with you. The fact that she can rely on you to go to her, and give her the loving affection she needs after her lover has just satisfied her, speaks volumes about how much you love each other. Also, I love the fact that she wants you to hold her hand while he brings her to a climax. That is so soooo cute.

Thanks for answering my questions Jacob, it was very interesting and sexy. I think your both brave to test your love for each other. I admit I like the idea of having something similar to what your girl has, I'm not willing to chance it though. I love my man so much! If I thought that he would be ok with it, I would love to try it. Like your girl though, I could not stand the thought of him being with another woman, so I would not want an open relationship, but one like yours. Your gf is so lucky to have you. No wonder she loves you so much.

 

She is the 1 & only lover I have ever had. So thats what it has to do with the topic.

 

Wow your girl is lucky she can come from vaginal intercourse alone, not all girls can do that regardless of the penis size.

 

Well, it's not easy for her to get there, but when she does, she just explodes and then has one orgasm after another. It's beautiful to watch! I cannot penetrate her hard and fast, for long enough to get her there, most guys would not be able too! It's not just the size of his dick though, it's his technique and ability to fuck her hard and long for the amount of time she needs to get to the place that she loves. She loses it totally!

 

She is also lucky to have a boyfriend who excepts that he cannot give her that pleasure, but allows her to have another man in her life that can. I think that is a really beautiful thing.

 

So if you could not satisfy your man would you allow him to have another woman in his life that can? Why not if it is a beautiful thing?

 

Seriously, I wouldn't waste your time with these guys. They just don't get it. They're greedy. But just like any gold digger, when the money runs out the girl leaves. If the guy put his foot down and said, no more money for you. You have to accept me for me... their relationship is dead.

Substitute gold/money for sex and you get the gists of this thread.

 

I agree with you, which is why I said I think Jacobklein and his girl are brave to test their love for each other the way they do. I don't think that I could, I'm not brave enough! I love my man to much to risk something like an open relationship spoiling what we have. I dont want him to be with another woman sexually, what if it led to more? It would make me a hypocrite to ask him to allow me to have sex with someone else, and for him not be allowed the same. That is unless he would want me too, like jacobklein wants his girl too

Even though I don't think my man and I could do it, I still see the beauty in what jacobklein and his girl have. It's sexy as well!

 

Would you feel the same way about your man if he was a cuckloid? A man that got off on you humilating him and telling him he was not good enough to satisfy you? That is what jacobklein situation is by how he describes it. That is fine if that is what he wants. But would you feel the same way about your man if he was that way? Would you still find him sexy?

 

hence one of the many reasons for monogamy.

 

The way I read Jacobs posts is that he is not able to last long enough to give his girl vaginal orgasms with his penis. Other than that and the BDSM thing they seem to have cool sex. I would say most girls do not orgasm through penetration alone, I've only managed it with one guy. My bf cannot make me orgasm that way, like jacobklein, he is not big, and he is not a stayer, so I can relate to what Jacob is saying.We still have a really cool time though.

Jacobklein actually said that he does not feel any real humiliation. That it's more of a fun thing between his girl and him that happens during their sex play. Thats the way I read what he said anyway. (Correct me if I'm wrong jacob) I think what they have is really sweet.

Would I still find my man sexy if he was my cuckold? God yes, I think that it's hot..... Only if he was into it though, and it was fun for us both. I think its horrible to cuckold guys by cheating on them. What Jacob said about him going to his girl in bed after she had been fully satisfied by her lover, and how he then holds, kisses and cuddles her and they tell each other how much they love each other. I think that is beautiful, and I would love my man to have that kind of self-confidence. To have him hold my hand as another man made me come. I would find that very attractive. I would think my man was cute, adorable and very sexy.

 

All the time I have been reading this post I kept wondering if someone would post about their husband and their current boyfriend. Not a one yet.

 

That's fine, nothing wrong with a vanilla type lifestyle. There's nothing wrong with brave people who do things differently either.

 

What do you mean Tazer?

 

I guess that makes you cowardly for not being willing to engage in the very things that you praise others of being so valiant for doing.

 

Meaning they have a boy friend and a husband and they are not the same person.

 

No, it doesn't

 

Please explain