Women that prefer blowjobs over intercourse

I've been on a few dates here and there. I'm going to a lesbian/bi party this saturday. I've tried okcupid, match and craigslist. A lot of women are teases and don't seem to want to meet in person. It takes awhile to find the right sexy woman that wants to have some fun time!

Oooh..My biggest fantasy is to pound a woman with a strap-on. So interesting that I don't like to be penetrated, but I want to penetrate another sexy woman! Yes, I feel like women are much better going down than guys are.

 

I respectfully disagree. Female arousal doesn't increase proportionally in relation to the bigger a guys dick is. Not every girl gets more turned on at the sight of a monster sized cock vs a normal sized one. And I'd equally say male arousal doesn't increase proportionally with the size of a woman's breasts. Sometimes bigger isn't always better.

Not true at all. Men very much DO appreciate blowjobs. The problem is that a lot of girl just flat out don't know how to do it well. What I mean is that a lot of girls have "average" dick sucking skills. Trust me, it's hard to fuck up a bj, but I've certainly had a few bad ones. However, very few girls have truly mastered the art of the blowjob. They should give girls proper lessons in secondary school. That way we don't have to train them later in life :2thumbsup:

Well, that explains a lot. You obviously seem to prefer women. Nothing wrong with that at all. But you can't expect to get much sexual pleasure from fucking guys when you're obviously not that into them to begin with.

I have no problem hearing it, as well they should be! A woman should know the female body better than a man. As such, a woman should be ashamed if a man can eat pussy better than her. But that doesn't mean all men suck at it. There are guys that are pretty damn good at it.

 

blow jobs are fun to give. i think i do a pretty dandy job. i like to please my guy so i enjoy giving him what he wants. but of course i love it when he pleases me too

 

You can talk to the guys that told me that I suck the best dick. These same guys criticize me for liking it so much. They say that women only blow to please men, and that's bs. Why is it so hard to believe that a woman can get off from a bj? I don't want to be with some guy that criticizes my oral fixation.

 

I never said women couldn’t get off from a bj. And I wasn’t talking specifically about "you" when I said most girls don’t have exceptional skills at it. "Most" in this instance means women in general based on my broad experience (not you specifically). I don’t know you. You very well may suck a mean dick. If so more power to you.

And for the record. Any guy would call a girl to suck his dick if he felt there was a chance she'd actually do it. Doesn't mean much of anything.

I don’t’ place negative judgements on women who enjoy sex and/or have a lot of it. In fact, I happen to prefer my women to be that way. I should also note that I don't take what a couple of girls do, and use it to negatively stereotype the entire female gender. You just come off as being bitter against all men for practically no reason. Just because you're only attracted to girls doesn't mean all men are scum!

Yeah, we get it. You like/prefer girls. You don’t have to keep repeating it. Gotcha the 1st time!

 

I apologize for coming bitter towards men, but this is stuff I've actually heard from men's mouths. On another dating blog, several men joined in a discussion on how they would look down on a woman for just giving oral sex. Their logic was "She's not able to get off on it. What does she get out of a blowjob?" HUH? As pleasurable as oral sex is, why would you look down on someone that enjoys giving it? Even when a guy appears sexually open-minded, he still might say something "off." I have a male friend right now that doesn't get why I like to give better than receive, and he's a pretty experienced guy.

It's just frustrating when you have to explain your sexual preferences to someone.It's also a pet peeve of mine when one gender is telling the opposite sex what they should or shouldn't like. An example is when you're telling a man that you like to have your clitoris stimulated, but they say "All women like their g-spot stimulated more than their clitoris." If you don't live in my body, how can you know what I like best?

 

No one knows what you like more than yourself. Anybody that thinks they do is just a fool.

 

Yeah, those guys are just idiots. Especially the ones trying to tell you what "you" like during sex. Just forget them, and try not to let a few idiots form your judgement on all men.

 

I love to suck dick and it turns me on to the point of needing very little stimulation to orgasm during, but I would never say I prefer it to sex, there are other places that cock has to go!

 

I'm an oral sex fan. I enjoy sucking, licking and especially swallowing. My husband is only permitted to cum into my mouth. I also love having my clit licked good and hard and occasionally squirting into my husbands mouth. Wish I could squirt more often, but it's like random chance. He loves when I do that. He's an oral fan too. I swear we're made for each other. :love:

 

The strap on fantasy to me is just also being able to rub it in between her tits and have her suck on it.

Can someone tell me where this idea that women don't enjoy giving oral sex comes from? If gay men and straight men are allowed to enjoy going on down on others, why not women? Just again I read elsewhere that oral sex is an act where only one person experience actual sexual pleasure and the other person gains their satisfaction out of giving pleasure.

 

Giving a blow job can be very arousing.
It turns me on. I don't mind working on a dick with my mouth.
I would have no problem just giving a blow job if he wanted to lay back and let me do all the work for a night.
I can't say that I could get by on that alone...all the time. I need and want to be fucked and enjoy all the aspects of sex. Penetration is so good, how could I let that be neglected though?

 

I wish the women that voted for bj's would at least also share their opinion on penetration. I tried penetration again with a toy last night, and got bored. No matter how hard I try, it just doesn't compare to licking someone or getting titty fucked. I feel liked breasts are way more sensitive than the insides of my vagina

 

What about guys that enjoy giving oral to a woman more then sex? Is this a normal thing?

 

Yes, I would love to give my wife oral more than intercourse - its just seems a lot more intimate & than kissing a womans mouth's lips. You also have more sensitive areas to lick down below than up top.

 

Why not? I wouldn't judge at all, but I wouldn't do well with those men....bc I still like giving than being eaten out.

 

Can I just have both done to me?

 

I don't ever do fucking. I like to fantasize about fucking, but I don't actually like doing it. My husband doesn't get anything out of fucking either, so he doesn't mind. He cums into my mouth. I'm a totally oral girl. I love oral sex, both giving and receiving.

 

Same. I've thought about fucking in my head and it feels good. Same with anal. In reality, it may not always work.

 

Its normal for me!..I love eating pussy..and as soon as my wife, spreads her legs..I am down there licking, and sucking.I love the taste of her cum, and the softness, of her pussy. As long as I am gentle after she orgasms...she can go on forever..(or so it seems), The best part for me, is when she has that silly smile on her face, as she writhes after her orgasms...I try and get her warmed up lol..by eating her out..and it works!..after cumming a few times by my munching, she is basically ready for ANYTHING!..including amazing blowjobs on me!

I just think oral is so much more sensual..if done right..just lie back...and enjoy the feelings, I lick up all her cum..she swallows mine..heaven..

And I don't know about other guys..but I can hold off for a long time before cumming, Its just having someone there between your legs, devoting their entire energy on making you feel as good as possible...I love blowjobs!

 

I don't like giving blowjobs more than sex, but get eaten out vs. sex would be a close tie!

 

how about oral on you,then penetration, so that the guy can cum, and then oral. so that the guy can lick up all your tasty juices??..win..win