okay so i dated this girl and she was pretty chill, she was a stoner and we chilled almost everyday, she dumped me because she wasn't ready for a relationship but she wanted to get back with me in time when she was ready, we started to patch things up and i was warned against it but i didn't listen, now she's dating a guy who i thought i was friends with (he knew i was trying to get her back and also encouraged me to keep trying for her)
So are you stupid for getting back together with a girl who previously dumped you for some silly reason before? Only you can answer that question. But... I know I'd have a hard time giving a girl another shot with me in that situation. She'd have to earn the 2nd shot with me for sure.
You will learn as you age that ex's belong in the past. You are just going to end up with issues that lead to another break up if you try to get back with them.
Sounds like she and your good friend solved the getting back together thing for you! Now if she wants to get back together with you once things fall apart with him and you do, then you might not be to bright. Let the past be the past. Hold your head up high and move on.
ive done the same kinda thing you did and it went as well for me as for you ! minus the friend part' but as said above ex's should stay just that. and no your not dumb your just human we all make mistake's
I agree with this. The only exception I have for ex's not getting back together is when the cause of the first breakup was something circumstance related like getting a job that would've put the couple in a long distance relationship so a mutual breakup occurred or something of that sort which throws of the timing of the relationship. Wouldn't you agree that's a reasonable exception Isadoran?
