2 pumps and he's done :(

My boyfriend gets off WAY too fast. And when I say WAY too fast, I mean it! Literally 2 pumps and he can't help it, he's done. I know it disappoints him just as much as it does me not to mention he gets pretty embarrassed and stressed out. If he's 'not sober' he can go for much longer and it's great. He can usually get ME off at least a few times in that situation. But when he's sober, not at all. Whats up with this and what in the world can I do to help him?

 

Give him a BJ first

 

Have sex with him more often so he gets more used to the feeling and can learn to perform like when he's drunk.

 

Maybe it's just because he hasn't been sexually active in a while. I agree with all the above suggestions, and I would try not to have sex with him when "not sober" for a while, just so he can get used to the "real" experience.

 

Wait until he get older, takes me forever to cum these days lol

 

What happens afterwards, you only have sex once? What happens in round 2

 

I sure hope he eats a lot of pussy at least! As others have said get him off first then get him up for another round.

 

Seems obvious to me, get him blind drunk everytime

 

see if wearing two condoms at once will help.

 

only if you want them to rip

 

This.

 

Haha. He doesn't drink. I just need to smoke him up before hand every time, I guess. Anyways, I don't know. Sometimes he's great and I get off several times before he does, usually super high. Other times, ooooooppppsss! Good god. He'll try to go again but he's too embarrassed and stressed out to make it happen. Whatever. We haven't been together that long and before we were together he spent over 7 or 8 months alone in the woods. So, what can I expect.

 

Alone in the woods?

 

My boyfriend is the opposite, he takes far too long to the point that I get horribly bored. I think it is because he masturbates something like 10 times a day though

I think it is silly to expect him to be drunk all the time, I am guessing he is still pretty young (20ish?) and probably eager, it is a common problem with men, just make sure he is not stressed about it or embarassed, these things happen and eventually he will be able to control himself better.

 

Maybe you're just that hot

 

Maybe He's Dreaming Of Someone Else....



Cheers Glen.

 

get him drunk more often, ldo.

 

Try Viagra, after hes shot his bolt, he'll still be hard for ages.....

 

Check out my thread on Premature Ejaculation at the top of the "Sexual Health" forum just below, and you will find answers.

 

Yea, kind of a requirement for the job he takes on during the summer. Has nothing to do with what we're talking about, but he didn't have sex for quite some time. So, that was the point of sharing that bit of info.

 

leeds85 is correct.

public service message. do not double up on rubbers