sleeping with your friends ex

i will certainly not be introducing my girlfriend to you any time soon

 

get Adam to tell your friend that he's interested in you. that gets the ball rolling and you're not in the bad books with your friend.

i agree with the others, your friend sounds like a control freak.

 

I would never go out with any of my friend's exes, but my friends are genuine people that don't play fucked up head games so the circumstances are a bit different.

If I did have a bitchy friend that played games with a guy I genuinely liked then started dating someone else right after they broke up, I would probably start dating the guy and stop hanging out with the girl. I can't deal with bitchy females.

It really depends on how important her friendship is to you.

Your best bet is to tell her straight up that you like this guy and you're gonna get to know him better. Then do your thing. Its a lot harder to draw someone into drama when that someone is completely honest and straightforward about their thoughts and plans.

 

i agree with vert and meli. right now though, we're only talking about it. he keeps saying hes getting old and likes someone to likes having sex. i keep agreeing and hinting but it feels like hes getting insecure about the situation and unsure. here i go again trying to have that trust with someone.

though im not getting my hopes down yet. just take things slow, yeah?

but yeah she likes head games and a bit of using people. wussy men. nice men. something i couldnt do.

 

So..... Ditch her.

Manipulative people are not good friends.

 

It really depends on how you feel about your 'best friend'

Mine would never tell me what to do

I had an agreement with a friend about my current boyfriend before we got together

she said she liked him too and if one of us got together with him there'd be 'no hard feelings'

years later she told me i 'played hardball' when in actuality we had a history and rolled with it naturally and quickly

I don't know how to advise you

I feel like you should be free to try things out with him and she doesn't

Were it me, I'd just tell her I like her but I'm gonna do as I wish as is she

 

thats how i feel. for some reason i feel hes trying to let her know that we're talking more by commenting on my statuses and saying that he wants to chill. right on facebook. cause he comments on mine every other status. or i could be wrong. but that is a good idea

 

i say do it gurl treat cho self

 

So she's already smelling a rat? Or are you that obvious about it?

In any case, she can't claim any rights anymore, moral or otherwise. It seems you'll have to choose between one or the other ... but the one that's making you choose might not actually be your friend. Friend is a big word ... at least to me ... and my friends don't play headgames with me.

 

her sister was saying that i wanted to date him and such which i never said and she got all defensive about it but we were both drunk at the time.

i already told her i liked him so now she knows. she got a little attitude about it but i think tomorrow me and him are gonna chill, go out for a couple drinks and i might give him a blow job

 

I would do whatever you want with him and don't let someone who has a hang up on him get in the way. Friend or not . I did it was awesome . Would never want to take it back either

 

She dumped him! She has no right to say who can and can not be with him. He could be your soul mate for all you know. Do what you want and if she has a problem with it tell her to go fuck herself. It might be different if he dumped her and she was still hurt about it, but she moved on fast so what right does she have to try and hold on to him as well.

 

An ex is an ex. If your friend can't handle it, she shouldn't have dumped him. Go for it, I would.