Not even sure I'm gay, but certain I have an oral fixation. Have always been very drawn to eating pussy, often finding that more stimulating and enjoyable than sex. I love women and being with women, but... I've always been drawn to sucking dick but not so turned on by anal penetration. I don't mind kissing a guy and messing around, and the idea of going down on a guy just drives me crazy. I've had a number of oportunities to satisfy this urge and can't stop thinking about the next time I can make it happen. Where's that come from?
I think kissing guys is gross (for me personally, not for everyone else)... but sucking cock? That's hot
You are bisexual. I could have written your thread. Exactly how I feel. I'm Alot more comfortable with it now than when I was younger.
Your NOT gay unless you can fall in love to the same sex with the emotional feeling heterosexual experience. If you found a man that you would marry and live with your gay. If your only attraction to the same sex is their genitals... your bi. I'm a bi married male that love oral sex with another man... but if I had to kiss a man... I'd throw up... go figure.
well i believe my self to be bi sexual, i love women and i have had no problem kissing guys, or having sex with males, i dont care for giving head though i have only done it once. i have had a crush on a guy, but i dont think i haqve been in love, but who is to say its not possible. i prefer women, but the option is there, that is the essence of being bisexual to me.
i dont like kissing guys but i like fucking them no emotional attachment though. dont wanna know them besides sex
Wow, you described me in a lot of ways. I am very interested in some of the responses on this forum regarding this issue as there are almost as many definitions of what is gay, bi and straight is as there are members. To me, the only person that makes that definition of yourself is you. Some will say I am gay curious hetero with experience, some will say I am bi and some will say I am gay hanging onto hetero. I define myself as bi. I tend heavily towards relationships with females, love sex with females although prefer oral to pussy. I don't know if I could ever fall in love with males and form a lasting relationship, to me it is more of a physical thing with males and not so much emotional. Having said that I have had a bit of a crush with a male and have very fond memories of him (Steven O from West Australia, send me a message if you read this). He had a great body and was one of the nicest people I have met. Could I have a relationship with him? Probably not but it doesn't really matter as I am in a relationship with a girl I love very much. I could however really enjoy his body again, sigh! To me someone that is bi is someone that has more than a passing interest in the same sex and have either acted on it or it is just a matter of time until they do. Gay is having a sexuality that is weighted heavily to same sex and able to form relationships with the same sex. Hetero is the same situation the other way. The confusing thing is that many people are not black or white on this, they are a shade of grey. So the question is what do you class yourself as? That is your answer in my opinion. I am thinking Bi.
I hear lots of people say they just want to suck cock so you are definitely not on your own. For me I don't really get it, I am romantically attracted to men as well as physically and it is their whole body and their personality that attracts, not just their cock. I do sometimes wonder if it is a self-defence mechanism with the sub-conscious fighting to oppose the notion that you might be gay or even bi but that's pure conjecture. Maybe this is just how many people are? From a personal point of view I know I came up with loads of theories over the years to explain my behaviour and desires that would allow me to deny the possibility of being gay or even bi. What I know now is that since I just accepted being bi I am much more happier.
if you put yourself in a total gay situation you will find out for yourself wether you are gay or not, don`t worry about it, just go and find out, and you will walk away with a smile on your face whatever the outcome
