Saying 'I Love You' In Acceptable Way

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by nz male, Jan 19, 2013.

  1. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

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    When you tell a friend 'I love You' (or someone else) , how do you make it known you mean it in a nice & acceptable way without them taking it in another meaning.
    Them thinking you have fallen in love with them & you actually mean it the other way. Ever had someone take it the wrong way & had to tell them differently so they realise they then understand & either apologise for their misunderstanding you or otherwise?
     
  2. roamy

    roamy Senior Member

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    when i tell my friends i love them,they know that it just means i love them.
     
  3. deleted

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    in a scooby doo voice..
     
  4. jimmyjoe1

    jimmyjoe1 toker Lifetime Supporter

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    even if you don't like somebody you can still love them..
     
  5. Heat

    Heat Smile, it's contagious! :) Lifetime Supporter

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    I think if you have not been misleading in any way a simple I love you to a friend is not likely to be misinterpreted.
     
  6. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    i don't know that i've ever said "i love you" to a friend.
     
  7. roamy

    roamy Senior Member

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    i never said i love you to anyone i don't love
     
  8. mike bedell

    mike bedell Member

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    love can not be explained or discribed
    it can not be controlled.
    It cant be weighed or measured
    so it cant be bought or sold.
    We dont know where it comes from
    we dont know where it goes
    but the desire to love and to be loved
    every human knows.
    Love has no beginning or ending
    like the eternity of a ring
    love holds so much in meaning
    because its the meaning of everything​

    but
    we love our cars, we love to dance
    we love our movie stars
    we love our families, god and country
    wed love to go to mars.
    We love ourselves, we love or pets
    we love to roller skate
    some people just love to love
    but some people love to hate.​

    So if you say to me "i love you"
    i feel no satisfaction
    i love you are just empty words
    until they are followed up with action.
    Its like saying the word "color" to an artist
    to whom color means everything
    there are so many colors
    and so many shades
    you have to show him what color you mean.​
     
  9. mike bedell

    mike bedell Member

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    take it how you must but I LOVE YOU ALL mike bedell
     
  10. dark suger

    dark suger Dripping With Sin!

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    Lol to me it's never ok to be so emotionally open
     
  11. SpacemanSpiff

    SpacemanSpiff Visitor


    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qXo3NFqkaRM"]Husky Dog Talking - " I love you " - YouTube
     
  12. GLENGLEN

    GLENGLEN Banned

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    What A Beautiful Dog, Hasn't Orison Got One Of Those...:).??



    Cheers Glen.
     
  13. calgirl

    calgirl Senior Member

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    I would think any long time friendship, there is a silent understanding that we "love" each other. If it's verbalized, clearly that would be the meaning. If its a man/woman friendship I supposed it has to be clarified a bit, but normally each person knows the status. Then if we're talking a courtship, and it's gotten to a point of declaring "love"....well.....man what a great moment that is. A big long hug, and emotionally laden kiss, would be an acceptable way.
     
  14. LetLovinTakeHold

    LetLovinTakeHold Cuz it will if you let it

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    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZGQyv-43334"]Bud Light Commercial - YouTube
     
  15. roamy

    roamy Senior Member

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    thank you mike. thats a lovely poem. :2thumbsup:
     
  16. Isadoran

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    I only say I love you to long time friends who know me well enough not to misinterpret it.
     
  17. Piaf

    Piaf Senior Member

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    I said it to only one friend, I think.
     
  18. Jo King

    Jo King wannabe

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    If they are a good enough friend for me to tell them I love them then they understand the meaning.
     
  19. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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  20. lovelyxmalia

    lovelyxmalia Banana Hammock Lifetime Supporter

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    you tell them you love them...

    Then you get down on your knees and say it into the microphone...
     
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