thinking of dumping my gf for something she did in the past

I thought about that before...because if your in someone's bed who has been married or has an ex well you know tey went at it there. Oh well. Honestly don't you want people to have had it good? I'm happy for people with a fun past.

 

wouldnt know never been to her work ;]

 

....What the fuuuuck is your problem, OP?

 

i have many sir, be specific

 

Why people ask about others past so that they can obsess about it or use it against them is beyond me.

A past is just that unless it has some bearing on the present.

 

If I were you I'd take the initiative and apologize to her face for being judgemental and indirectly condescending. In all the time you are with her now and in the future, NEVER bring up this part of her past in future during any sort of argument with her.

As long as she's loyal to you now I don't see a problem, and neither do lots of other people who have replied to you.

I do understand your jealousy or fear of losing her, to her former lover and I think that should be personally recognized inwardly by yourself, and dealt with by yourself. But it seems you've already communicated this to her and worked that aspect out so good job. But make sure you're over the mental jealousy hangup when scenarios pop up like this in your life.

 

yeah, i'm also a bit lost by the having a body of a woman thing. did she kill some woman and keep the body in her basement or something?

was the old guy she blew a doctor? that would explain the whole thing; panties start dropping just at the mention of the word "doctor."

goddammit, i've given so many women attention after they breakup with someone and it never led to blowjobs.

 

A friend had to get a new bed before his new girlfriend would move in because she wasn't going to sleep in a bed that he'd had sex with other women in.

 

If you are going to dump one cos she has previous experience, then I assume for one that doesnt, the sex is more likely to be crap, or one with no sex drive

So you have to pick between good sex or jealousy really. Pick the later and whats going to happen?, you going to be one of those guys starting a thread here complaining their wife doesnt do anything sexual for them?

 

WTF... you have no control over what she did before you got together!

Everyone has a past - if you stick with that attitude - you will never enjoy life with a partner.

 

Like how did you find this out? You must have asked her. I can't see why a woman would drop into a conversation 'oh I sucked a 55yr old cock just before I met you honey'
Have you ever seen the flim a few good men, you want the truth, you can't handle the truth!!!

If you don't like the answer, don't ask the question, is my motto

 

All this isn't something to do with the Obama-care is it?, I heard some people on tv saying that it sucks.

 

I have to add... you arent setting yourself up for her to be honest with you either. If she cant come to you without judgement she is going to close off pretty quickly and then you wont have to worry... cause she will probably just leave you lol.

 

idc if she does im just using her vagina while it lasts ;]

 

sounds like love, man.

 

well then it should matter even less who she blew before she met you.

let me know when you dump her and i'll be the first to show her some attention.

 

Dump her. She shouldn't have to deal with you. There are a lot of men who would appreciate her.

 

i do appreciate her and everrrrything she does for me

 

just because shes a tainted slut doesnt mean i cant enjoy her mouth and vagina for a while

 

Tainted would be if she fucked a horse in a ally way at age 12 bro. Its good though, one day you will not let things like this bother you. There is a great movie called 'Chasing Amy', I suggest you watch it stat. Hell, watch it with her, it is about the same deal you got going on. In the end he ruined the relationship, and was not very happy.