living w/ a hippie and i major dig him. but i cant tell if he likes me and i converted to ye ole wait for the guy to pursue YOU method. any signs i should look for? i get mixed signals... that or i am in denial because of baggage. anyway family what should i do or say to find out?
i decided to stop being the pursuer because it brought much hurt. i want to be chased not the chaser. ye ole fashion style.... it would tell me a he is worth my time.
Nah, it would kinda defeat the purpose to this new way "ole fashion" pact i made. im trying it out and seeing how it goes.
I guess you'll have to decide at some point, what's the more important to you, that pact with yourself, or those feelings you have for him. There are plenty of reason he might not be making the first move, maybe he's too shy, maybe he thinks you're not into him at all, maybe he doesn't has feelings for you now, but even if so, does it make the potential feelings he might have after you made the move less meaningful ?, who knows, he might have made a pact with himself too ^^ Is that so important to you that you're ready to waste time waiting, wondering, or worse, pass up the whole thing ? Can't it be more simple, like, you have feelings for him so you just try to get closer and see what happens ?
True, I will have to decide, I think I have to decide to pursue my feelings - always that risk of rejection creeping in your mind! (oh, the hurt we all know from that!) - or wait. I feel honestly that he defiantly likes me as a person and does have a thing for me, to be honest. And I kind of have the trouble I have noticed, to show that I am "diggn" him is a big door to my vulnerability (woe is me, the baggage). I know that I could take a small little crush heart break as I've taken much worse, but I don't want to experience it. I either let myself feel or I shut off. I do not want to lick my wounds and pass by on all men forever, just standing back for a moment and looking at the game. However, I do wish he could just tell me, and maybe that will be soon :2thumbsup:
