Where to meet cool gays offline?

Hi all,

I'm new in the US and I'd like to meet some cool gays for fun, or something more serious. As I don't know anyone in the NYC where I live now, I'd like to get some info on where to meet cool gay people.

I don't want to go to gay bars and also online dating sites feel like a scam, more or less, so where to meet them? Are there any public places or similar? I've found the GayStick.com, which is a direct matchmaking agency for gays and hopefully I'll get lucky over there. But in the meanwhile, I'd like to get some more options, if available. What do you recommend?

Thanks

 

57 views on your thread, and not one response. I see that is pretty common here. I'm starting to think this site sucks

 

just open a "can of spam" and pop it in the microwave for a few minutes to get it warm.

 

Have you tried craigslist ?

 

he said Offline.. like a Park or Bed Bath and Beyond..