2 weeks ago i was with my gf, and i made her mad because i asked if she really wanted to spend a few hundred dollars on a tattoo...shes gone away for december to mid january, and i know shes talking to her ex because he knows how to do tats.idk if she wants to be with him or just use him, because she got a tat a few months ago form him but that was once and me and her were intimate several times after that...idk what to do
i have access to her facebook she told him she cant wait to see him and misses him which is why i dont know if shes using him just for his tats or not...nothing sexual from what i read.
if she said she misses the ex it is a really bad sign... if you are snooping her f-book? also a bad sign move on
If one comment makes the polarity of a girl flip on you emotionally THAT FAST, that's a red flag to me. But I sense there's more to the story than what you've told us.
Yeah, I agree with monk, seems like theres more to the story.. Nothing wrong with wanting to spend money on tattoos, as long as she can afford to comfortabley
They seem to be friends. I'm friends with my ex's, and any time I don't see them in a while it doesn't mean I want to get back with them. She seems to just miss her friend, and wants him to tattoo her. I think you're being pretty paranoid. Also, being that they are friends, he's probably gonna give her a discount on the tat, so it won't cost as much.
I wouldn't trust it tbh, and like the guy above said a relationship that you have to snoop around on each others facebook or whatever cant be a good one. Maybe see where this goes and if anything fishey happens call it off. Why dont you just offer to go with her to get the tattoo or somthing?
well when i asked her about him being a douchebag in the past she told me people change, and she went on saying if i dont like how things go then i should just dump her. and i cant go with her becasue we live almost an hour apart when she goes to school and 40 minutes apart when shes home, i havent said anything to her for 4 days on facebook after we argued a little but she hasnt blocked me like shes done in the past
Sounds like an unhealthy relationship overall whether cheating is occurring or not. I'd get out. I wouldn't assume any cheating is necessarily happening, I'm friends with a few of my ex's and we've never gone out of the friendship boundaries if one of us was in a closed relationship. My overall view of cheating happening is 50/50.
yep its officially over now, she was telling me earlier this week she loved me and missed me. asked if i wanted to come see her at her house...drive 40 minutes to give her sweater back to her and to spend time with her and she goes you can stay today and i'm like wtf and she closes the door. blocks me on facebook . feel like such a sucker to have done that
